Hi

I can't count the number of girls who have rejected me recently, and I'm fucking sick of it. There is something I'm doing wrong, but I have no idea what it is. Other guys I know breeze into f closes, and girls will even invite me in for coffee and then spring some bullshit on me like they are seeing someone else. Yep, that actually happened. Got drunk with this girl, went home with her, she invited me in "for coffee", and it literally was coffee and a cold shoulder. Another girl spent all night talking to me at a party I was at, shutting out other guys, flirting heaps, only to then just leave without saying a word. I mean seriously, why are women THAT cruel to me? I can handle someone not being interested in me, that's fine, but to basically treat me like your personal confidence booster by sending mixed messages is just bitterly cruel. Are women seriously like this or am I just taking it too personally?

I'm fucking bitter. Yep, all the markings of an AFC. And although I don't "run game" in the typical way, I've still learned lots from pickup theory about how to better myself and how to handle myself in front of women, but to be honest if anything I'm much less successful than I used to be.

Anyone sympathise?

When you're "in field" you become too focus on "doing your thing" and your limited perspective doesn't let you see what's actually happing. You heared from all the pua that you must not care about the outcoming, but none can give you a way to do that because they earn it through much more practice then you even imagine. You think you failed to much, but it's never to much, you must fail until you're embrace both failure and succes, so that this two will not cause strong emotions to you anymore.
Hope it helped !
Most pua's stuff are useless for a beginner, because it's very hard to see from a lighted place to a dark one.
I've read and watch and listen a lot of pua material for 1 year and I was unable to actually game somebody(I even used hypnosis for approching anxiety, motivation, etc.)
And finally a week ago I got to the root of the problem and I believe it's the best stuff in the world. If you want to know my solution let me know, this message is already very big .

Here is something you can do to turnaround that situation:

First of all, in a party game you better be tipsy when you start your game, that´s the best way to reject all the fears you have and remove the AA from your mind, it also improve in a massive way your confidence and your social skills.

Second an the most important thing, Play with 2 or more chicks in the party, cause if she sees you are not limited only to her and you are dancing with other HB´s, you´ll arise your social value dramatically. Make sure that you wont be obsessed with only one girl in the party and make sure you´ll play with other women. If you do that, you´ll see that she is gonna show lot of signs to call your attention.

Good luck Buddy!

hey Harold,
okay, look on the brightside, it sounds like from what you've said girls are happy to spend time in your company, this is a good thing it means they don't see you as weird, dangerous, boring etc.......unfortunately at the moment they aren't seeing you as a sexual person either. This is what you should work on. I don't know what reading material you have at the moment but try magic bullets, gamblers book or the mystery method.
try not to be bitter about this, its neither your fault or the womens, you need to act in a way that has been uncommon to you so far in your life, and women will respond better once you learn a little more about attraction and seduction (your comfort/rapport sounds ok to me).
I would advise AGAINST getting seriously drunk, it will diminish your conversation abilities, and drop your value considerably.
good luck ad let us know how you get on.