Having read in books about the attraction switches needed to incorporate in DHV stories, lets get a list on the go. Also feel free to advise on how to incorporate them in any stories without sounding like your boasting

So far I have found;

"Alpha male"
"The ability to look after her and her children, financially and otherwise"
"Socially competant"
"Many friends"
"pre-approved by other females"
"intelligent"
"Confident"
"Funny"
"Leader of men"
"Has standards when comes to women"
"Many girlfriends"
"Discreet"

Any others?

Others:

Leader of Men
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Let`s get going...
1. Alpha male - So, guess you know the 6 quality things of the alpha male right ?

"The ability to look after her and her children, financially and otherwise"- Don`t know how old you are, but I`m 18 and for now is little hard to show her, that I can take look after her financially, because I`m not working yet . For the children, I think that`s easy... just tell her a story of your sister`s children ( I guess), and how you was taking care of them for a day or two (or more ).

"Socially competent" - Ok, you can combine socially competant, with "many friends" and "Leader of men". When you are with a company of a friends ("many friends") and you are leading them, that`s shows that you are the AMOG - "Leader of men". To be a leader you have to be "socially competent". Go sarging in places you know, you gonna meet friends there, like discos or something like that.

"pre-approved by other females" - I think you can show this by throwing a story of your girlfriends... yeah, you can fake them, like sayng that your last GF was exotic dancer or something like that. This shows that the "cool girls" likes you. If you gonna fake the story, you will have to calibrate. Maybe saying that your last GF was exotic dancer is not good idea for this set. Think about something else... faking it`s easy.

"intelligent" - I will give you a example for this. I`m throwing a story of how I was on youth camps, all over the Europe (that`s not fake ). I`m from Bulgaria, and this is a perfect DHV for here, showing that I`m intelligent.

"Confident"- That`s the one of the things you must have to be Alpha male.
Body Language is very important here. When you are walking down the street, and watching the ground, not the horizon -that shows "Hey please,
don`t talk with me, because I`m not confident". When you are talking with a girl, pay attention for the body language, and always defend your opinion - that`s projecting - "Hey, I`m confindent in myself, so don`t fuck with me".

"Funny"- again another quality of the Alpha male. Guess you know funny is "HAHAHAH", but by "hahah" you won`t get laid so easy. You have to be PLAYFUL ! That`s the meaning of funny. YES, throw jokes, laugh ... you know. To be playful it`s more fun, you will make more kino. For example perfect game for sarging is pillow wars (I don`t know the name of the game ). You can make lots of kino there. Hope you got the point.

"Has standards when comes to women" - The things are little different for every city. I live in small city, so the GOSSIP level is HIGH ! When you show yourself with not so beautiful girl, and maybe a week after you are with another girl but this time more beautiful than the first one - "Look at him, remember that he was with the ugly girl last week ?", "yeah, he don`t have standards at all". Hope to catch the point.

"Many girlfriends" - It`s like "pre-approved by other females". Throw stories about girl friends, show that you are not NEEDY, you have girls to get laid, so your point is not getting with her (for the moment ).

"Discreet"- For that I`m still searching the right information .

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Great list, and great expansion by aRdoslav. All of these are very important things to think about in regards to "how to I make myself naturally attractive to women?" A handy list to have.

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Successful risk taker!

The most powerful ones:

Tribal leader attributes and social proof.

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Not to take certain stuff so serious.

Do you realise that all the caracteristics under ''alpha male'' are the caracteristics that make you a ''Alpha Male''...


May the alphaness be with you...

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Being "That Guy" that you need to have at a party.

Bering able to poke fun at her and yourself... showing that you don't take yourself too seriously and you're not intimidated by women/beauty. Of course this could fall under the whole "Confidence" thing, but I usually don't use that anyway, being such a vague, general term that envelopes many things within the community.

This one you don't want to mention explicitly. Girls want men who look for longterm relationships/ quality relationships. If you have had many girlfriends, then you can't be trusted, because you haven't been looking for longterm relationships. The reasons you broke up have be legit, and you have to judge girls on their character. That shows quality.

Totally agree with you buddy. For the "Discreet" part: I guess it's about the ability to keep a secret. Just tell a story about a secret someone told you and you don't know how to deal with it, because you are affraid he/she might hurt him-/herself (see, also looking after someone, HA!). Or about how you got upset about someone telling YOUR secret to another.

Not that hard imho

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"Discreet" means when her friends ask if the two of you have slept together (which they know full well you have as she's already told them) you say "no I haven't" and if pressed reply "I don't kiss and tell"

The girl now knows if SHE sleeps with you in the future there will be no social repercussions or "reputation issues" to deal with.

This is such a big box for girls to tick I can't emphasise it enough.The ASD response is hardwired into her brain from when we lived in a tribal environment,why make life hard for yourself just so you can boast to your buddy's?

I would agree with this. I have had many girlfriends and I don't talk about it with prospective girlfriends. If I get the sense that "# of sex partners" is going to come up in conversation, I solidly redirect to new convo. Nobody likes dirty laundry.

Mystery and Matador also put forward ability to emote/emotional healthiness as an attraction switch. The example used is the way that you react to difficult stimulus (this is part of what a shit test is designed to assess).

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