First of all I would like to say hello and a big thank you to all of you who contribute to the wealth of information on here. I discovered the Game about two years ago and been adopting bits and pieces every since. More recently I've discovered RSD's Blueprint which I thought was excellent and has been a very positive influence on me.

Anyway, I'm 30 and have recently come out of a 12 month relationship. I've been seeing a few girls in the last month or so since being single; some I've met online and others when out on the town. It's all been good.

Obviously I've been seeing a few women at anyone time, and a few weeks ago arranged to meet a cute 18 year old who lives 300 odd miles away who I've been chatting to on the webcam for a couple of weeks now. She's very attractive easy to talk to and mature for her age. At the time there was no one else I was serious about so we decided to book hotel, trains etc. for a fun weekend the weekend after next. So far as good.

Well since then, I've been seeing a lot of a 28 year old who lives nearby. I think she's great and ticks lots of boxes for me. We've just started seeing each other regularly and sleeping together. She has an awful lot of potential and wouldn't surprise me if the relationship has legs, at least for the next few months before I have to move from the area. After that who knows.

The problem I'm having is my conscience is starting to twitch and I'm wondering whether I've crossed a line in my relationship with the 28 year old, which means going ahead with my weekend away is morally dubious!

I realise I'm the only person who can judge what I should or should not do, but would welcome any comments any of you may have. On the one hand I think you only live once, fill your boots and commit emotionally if that's what I decide to do further down the line. On the other, am I starting off on the bad foot with the 28 year old. I'll need to carefully choose my words when reporting on my weekend away!

Thanks guys.

welcome to the forum. As far as your situation goes honestly i would pursue the 28 year old for a number of reasons. The first reason is because she is closer to you and you seem to have built up a good relationship with her. The second reason i would stick with the 28 year old is because she is more around your age and probably wants the same thing you do. The 18 year old is not looking for an LTR right now she is just looking for some fun and probably does not want to start a family or anything close to that. You can still meet up with her and see what she is all about but chances are she is just looking for some fun. hope this helps.

Thanks. Sorry I don't think I was as clear as I could have been. I'm pretty certain the 28 year old is the one for a LTR, which I may or may not pursue. What I'm not sure about is whether it's bad form to go away for the weekend with the 18 year old when I'm in the early stages of what could be a relationship.

I think I should probably just enjoy the weekend away and decide about whether to go for it with the 28 year old afterwards. I'm just worried I may already have got too deep and don't want to betray her trust.

i would just go enjoy your weekend with the 18 year old. As long as you're not in a relationship with the 28 year old, there's nothing wrong with having a little fun with an 18 year old