Ok bit of an odd one, girl who met few months ago on holiday nothing happened but did feel some spark between us. Funny enough main reason nothing happened is because she thought I was a "player" which to be honest couldnt be further from the truth. Didnt use anything cheesy or stupid but she thought I said the same kinda things to a different girl each week & just used them.

Met up again this weekend went ok but didnt really lead anywhere as she had to leave with her mate. Now not the best with my texting game and have read countless times keep it short, flirty and fun etc. She text me on the sunday and maybe cos was running on little sleep all the following txts were boring as hell from me, like dull questions. Her last txt didnt really ask for a reply so didnt give it one. Thing is where to go from here....can quickly see her getting bored but 'cos sent her whole day of rubbish "nice" texts tho think be really random to start sending cocky funny style texts but at same time need to get off my current route fast, and get some spark back!! appreciate if anyone can help fix this!!???

Dude the thing she said to you "you are a player" is a test . It's not bad being a player, even better than a nice guy no matter what she say kuz being bad guy is more attractive than a good guy.

Dont ask stupid questions on which she can answer with 2-3 words or even worse with yes/no... Ask questions which she would probably like to talk about... Make her think before she answer something etc... Search for her interests and than ask her about that (when you find something in common say it... ohh i think same, ohh i like that too bla bla)... That way you will leave impression to her you got something in common. It works great sub-conciously. You have plenty of examples here on forum what you can ask her and in which way... Avoid texting, make her meet you ...

Thanks for the advice mate, is funny to be labelled a "player" when youre not couldnt get out of it, tried to convince her that I wasnt but she was like "of course thats what you'd say" haha.....problem is shes not local to me so wanted to try build up some banter via texting first to try progress it....read some opening txt lines on this forum earlier which some just made me crack up just to get bit of playfulness....if started texting in that way would be cool but surely if now started texting random flirty stuff shes gona think its bit odd but dont want to text her in next few days with the same "hey there, blah blah hows work treating you today" boring fluff but like said cause sent load of them on sunday doubt however funny it is a line such as

"Aliens are coming to abduct all the good looking sexy ass people! You will be safe, I'm just texting to say goodbye" would go down too well, will move onto phoning soon but for next few days, how would u guys shape a text??

ok....wasnt sure what route to take and havent spent enough time to use anything for callback humour so went with something simple along the lines of hey you keeping out of trouble.............got reply what me in trouble never lol how u doin xx...........now kinda getting back to where dont want to be where im just sending boring typical respones back such as..yeah doing fine blah blah u? ......what could be a good fun flirty but not over the top response back?