me-MMM I'm hungry for some romance
her-Ok?
me-Let's go to Burger King and order one. Supersized.
her-I believe it's large sized...and order what?
me-Ew..you would know. FATTIE. A Romance.
her-Do they serve those?
me-The customer is always right. Wait...I'm always right...I do what I want when I want.
her-Oh really?
me-I'm grabbing your ass when I see you.
her-Lol I doubt that
me-I love...
her-Me? Aww of course you do. Who doesn't
me-I do love me...aw we're finishing each others sentences already. So cute.
her-Ha! You're a dork.
<Called her>
My point here is simple. Get the fuck off the phone keyboard and call her. I fuck with girls a lot and have long retarded text conversations, but that's generally to get my mind off what I'm doing and give myself a break. Any girl I'm serious about hanging out with I will rarely go more than 2 or 3 texts before a call, unless necessary. What I did above was meant to show I don't care. In reality, I will say something like:
"I love you. Meet me at xx at 8:30. Going to gym now, so I'll see you after."
But when you do text keep it funny and short. Never look into what she says and for the most part be non-responsive and don't pay attention to anything she says, unless it's logistics or something. Just keep being yourself and rock out. Stick to your game plan. Your game is a 10 when you want it to be, so don't waste that.
If you're not going to call her then fine, meet up with her. Tell her you're taking her for tacos at 830 at Julio's taco shack. Then take her to walmart and have a bike race. It really doesn't matter. A lot of guys ask me how to get girls off the phone and out in person. Well, one of the biggest things guys do is that they fuck around via text message until her pussy dries up and she loses all respect for you as a man.
Think of the initial perception she had of you. She met this guy who was cool, fun and a little ballsy, or whatever your style of game is. She wants to hang out with that guy but is wondering why he won't bring her out. Soon enough, all attraction is lost and she moves on and no longer responds.
On a side note, girls rock.
Back to point. It's the same as sales. The point is not to sell over the phone, the point is to get a meeting. You can't fuck her over the phone. You can't rip her pants off over the phone. You can only do it in person.
The whole goal of having a phone is just a simple tool that allows you to meet up with her. Check it.
Everything I do and say via text is an exact example of the kind of person I am. I fuck around, I know what I want and I don't take unimportant stuff too seriously, ie. hanging out with a chick. I treat it the same way I do when Savoy calls me. I make a joke out of it. Except I just make fun of him.
When I finally meet a girl in person she knows what to expect and we have a blast together.
Simple things to remember
*Use the phone to hang out with her, keep it simple.
*Always keep your true persona. Don't put on a show, just be the kick ass guy you are. When you tend to do this you start to fill your life with the kind of people that help you grow and achieve what you set out to.
* Over texting leads to this
Don't use texting as an excuse to meet up. Meet up with as many chicks as possible.
CHAT
