I was staring at some random college girl while walking to class. She caught me looking at her, so she looked away. Then she looked back again and looked away smiling. Was this an IOI or was it that she just appreciated me checking her out?

well, it's basically the same, if she seemed to enjoy your interest, that's an IOI too.

If she would have looked away rolling her eyes then it would be an IOD

So yeah I guess it's an IOI

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For one thing you should have went over there and said Hey without thinking. This way you get to check out if it was an IOI or IOD but who really gives a fuck what it was. Nothing happened out of it and now your over analysing one look. If you think its cool then just go and talk!

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A clever ioi I'd say, should have said to her " hey you checking me out!" Haha or something a bit cocky straight with a neg, would have got her attention.

Alright.

If you walked around life waiting for "IOI's" all the time, what kind of life would you lead? Would you be the assertive, take charge kind of guy every girl dreams about?

You tell me...

Here's what you do when you look for an IOI:

You only allow yourself to approach/move forward in the interaction if the girl gives you permission. This applies to every day life. Remember, she has no idea what kind of guy you are, so unleash your kick ass side on her. Have fun and blow up with positivity and brightness. Take the world.

When you try to come back with something like, "Hey! I saw you checking me out!", as some sort of "neg" all you're doing is distancing yourself from your goal. If she does in fact smile and sort of cocky/funny bullshit will only turn her off from you. Be yourself at that point because she already likes you. Don't back track. Take it from a guy who has been doing this for a long time and has been teaching for a long time. I mean no disrespect to the guys above.

Bottom Line:

Always assume attraction. There is no room for anything else in this game. There are only a handful of people in first place, and everyone else in the world sits right behind them in 2nd, slowly waiting for what they "think" they deserve.

Rock on bro.

Chris Rex

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Chris your points are valid, although I'm a cocky kind of guy.. I often get away with being cocky and humurous, I guess peoples personalities make them different for obvious reasons,, if I go up to a girl after she shcked me out and say " hey I saw you checking me out" I'd be laughy and jokey about it, not dead serious, make a girl laugh it them means you have a gateway to comfort..

Yeah what you're saying is right. But for a general rule it's safer to not go in and risk losing it by doing too much.

The main point is never look for a signal, just go for it and never look back.

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I agree, safe game usually means successful game if you know how to stack and build comfort anyway.