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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 9:49 pm 
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I went out with some friends to one of those clubs where it's basically just a dance floor and little else.

About 6 of us were dancing when 2 new girls joined the circle. One of them, a really attractive blonde, was next to me. They were friends of one of my female friends.

Long story short, they were there for about 15 minutes then they left. I regret not saying anything to the blonde girl.

I just thought I was kinda limited by the dance floor situation, loud music etc...

Any thoughts or advice?


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 6:36 pm 
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 7:13 pm 
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limiting beliefs .....
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Long story short, they were there for about 15 minutes then they left. I regret not saying anything to the blonde girl.
i just thought I was kinda limited by the dance floor situation, loud music etc...
you didn't even game her... you didn't do shit - you aren't limited you let yourself be limited.... you could kino/game and isolate her... you didn't even try

now we have discovered something ...
1. you didn't so shit, time to change that
2. there are no limits until you really believe those limits
3. the blonde was next to you ... proximity IOI

you didn't suck ... you was not your best self - at least you try to learn so keep in mind every night out even bad nights are good nights because you learn new reference experience.
these are my thoughts, now some advice....

get some inner game dude ... you were too insecure to talk to her because you let the enviroment dictate the rules. When i go out sarging i dictate the rules.
Look loud music can be a hassle if you want to talk but when you want to talk in depth you shouldn't be on the dancefloor at all.
Loud music & dancfloor -- > dance game ---> kino--- > isolate -- > move to another spot and run game & talk
some people say 80 % is body language .... some people say 65 % is body language HOWEVER we all agree body language is important. if you got good dancegame you can close woman without running verbal game.

The reason people don't reply is because they consider you a total newb because you didn't do anything. i don't judge as long you try to improve yourself..
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 9:55 pm 
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i agree with the Lodewijkp

you you didnt game her because you were uncomfortable

i could go all into dancegame since its my forte but...AA is your sticking point here

so get back to this thread when you have sorted the AA aticking point

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