Ok, I discussed the issue with two guys here on the chat. So if you're seeing this again, sorry.

Story:

I've known this HB since highschool, and I recently became her friend via Facebook (long before I joined this forum) we started talking and blah blah, I number closed and blah blah. She got into a relationship and me being an AFC I backed out.

Fast Foward:

It all began with a comment on Facebook, and I'm not going to lie..I played some pretty good game..here you be the Judge:

hmmmmm maybe what i think is right, is really wrong? one day ill realize why everything happens(Her Facebook Status)

Me: How about me and you play a game....interested? Hit me up.

Her: hmmmm what type of game? lmao CANDYLAND?

Me: lol I don't like where this is going . But with my game, I can promise that you'll benefit greatly from it....but then again it's your choice...

Her: hmm...monopoly? uno? CONNECT FOUR? lol ur such a loser! lol

Me: Me a loser? lol Your the one that doesn't have the balls to try, therefore you've already accepted defeat. Loser..

Her: LOL! nah i havent done ANYTHING! lol

Me: lol You've chosen to remain oblivious to my proposed game, hence your new title "Loser".

Her: lol shut up! i get u!!!!!!!!!!!! how r u? =D

Me: I'm doing good lol. How r u?

Her: great =D im in southcarolina! oh sorry i forgot you at home. but its cuz u forgot about me for newyork >=/

Me: Nice lol. I'm actually going back soon, but how am I supposed to take you to NY if I never let you take me out?

Her: "if i never let you take me out" lmao! so u reject me alot huh? damn. im always asking u if u wanna go to dinner and u say no =( i see how it is. lmmfao. sorry u just made my day

Me: Lol Sarcasm is anger's ugly cousin, and then you wonder why I reject you

Her: lmao!!!!!!!!!!! im not mad!happy happy happy!!!!!!!!!!

Me: lmao. So what are you doing in South Carolina?

Her: my SISTA lives here. so im spending the week with her. having girly talk, drinking margaritas =P getting away from my hectic life over there lol. RELAXING. =D

Me: That's good, relaxing is important and you deserve it. Maybe when you get back I'll let you take me somewhere....Maybe

Her: LMAO. hmm. ill take you yo a 5 star restaurant. how does Emeril lagasse's restaurant at the beach sound? lol NOT. how about mcdonalds? or we'll bump it up a notch....WENDYS

Me: Lol. Damn Wendys? You can do better than that....Texas de Brazil

Her: HAHAHAHAHAHA! u can take ME there =D i give u permission

Me: Lol hmmm we'll see...

After all that, I was thinking Shit when she gets back its a done deal....This is where shit gets "dicey".

A couple of days later I see a status on her page and I say hey, why not lets mess around a little. So I just put up a stupid smiley face. About 5 minutes later her shit is loaded with comments, all of which point to a clear indication that she might be in a relationship.....

Some guy had commented, "I miss my superwoman". Then the HB's bestfreind comments until the HB says,"I miss my superman".

This is where I went AFC and fucked myself up.....I commented on the status one finaly time and sayd, "Damn, your calling me Superman now? You gotta keep me updated on my names".

She replied,"Sorry sweety. **SoandSo** is my superman ur pooh bear lmao! Hahaha(Poohbear is a name everyone called me in highschool)


So, my question is....Did I fuck up? and if I did...feel free to bash me....But how do I get out of the whole I jumped in?

Ask yourself: what do I want from her?

I have a feeling that she thinks you are still the same guy you were in high school. Based on the fact that she nicknamed you Pooh Bear, I don't think she felt attracted to you. You gotta speak to her or see her if you really want to show that you've changed into a guy that she would be attracted to.

Hope this helps

Im puzzled!! Why do you think you messed up?

That was high-powered game you dished at the HB-back & forth.

Plus I don't know what kind of AFC you are when you engaging in such smooth chat with the HB.You seem like a PUA already(lol).

The only thing I think you did wrong in the chat was that you milked your opening(about playing a game).You dragged it out too long to the point that the HB did what you should've done-change the fuccing subject already(lol).You must learn to stack on to another routine or topic before you stale out like you did.Besides that,the chat was marvelous.

And so what if she has a bf!!?Is she feeling you despite having a bf?

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Thanks for the advice K-Loc.

Pope: Thats why I'm waiting till she gets back from her trip.

When she gets back, we're going out....I gotta put my game-face on....

Poohbear doesn't exist anymore, fuck that...that shits long gone.

I'll keep you guy's updated on the situation. Thanks again.

Good luck with it and let us know!

Here you go guys, Full Field Report with great conclusions. Enjoy.

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