I've been hanging out with my friend a lot. He is 6 ft. and freaken jacked. Endless amount of girls check him out and try to find ways to talk to him. He is very confident, but so am i and other guys i know. But so many girls want to bang him just because of his looks. Ive heard girls say that he doesn't even have to say anything. So i will tell any pua who claims looks don't matter is retarded. When it comes to relationships looks aren't as important, but they help. When it comes to just one night stands looks are very important.

Dude. Looks DO matter and that's something you can't argue with. But, do not compare yourself to other people. This will only serve in making you feel bad about yourself. No matter how good looking you are, there will always be someone who's better, there will always be an aspect of your image that you don't like.

If looks don't matter that much to you, neither it will to the people you talk to. Looking good does help, but it's not a required aspect of a PUA's game. Being handsome does accelerate some steps of the pickup, but if you aren't handsome, this flaw does not eliminate that step.

And all people have control over their appearance. This jacked guy you were talking about, has probably spent many months, maybe even years developing that hot body. I personally work out, but I do it cause I genuinely want to work out, not to impress people. You can spend time and money fixing your teeth, getting a tan, getting good clothes, getting a great haircut.

You have control over all these things. All it takes is some money and MAINLY skill and experience you must give from yourself


I also want to add, that I know a lot of people who are either very rich, have a good body or are handsome. Unfortunately that does not compensate their inability to talk to a woman. They might hide behind all those qualities, but the chick eventually finds out that this is all they have to offer.

How come Gambler, who was called ugly in high school now has seduced 100 times more HOT women that an average strong/rich/handsome guy ever will?

In our being more intelligent, smart and cunning is very important in order to get somewhere in life... to be of importance...


This is just my two cents on this...

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On the flip side of this I had a roommate who was a really good looking dude and ladies all seemed to be interested in him until they started talking to him. He would assume a lower status role in nearly all situations. He tried but would mostly be that lovable loser - I tried to teach him game but he still struggled. I however am an average looking guy but I tell women that I am a stud and treat myself like I am a prize and so are you! Assume that you are the prize and BAM! you are! You have a lot to offer. I think any women would like a guy who is taking time to get his act together like we all have done or are in the process of doing.

I have a friend who dances, is ripped and almost every girl i know thinks he is hot.. but he has no game and tries to be the nice quiet guy.. he hasnt had a girl in ages, the girls usually make the move for him but he has LSE and just doesnt get any. Looks do matter but only so much!

To girls, getting the hottest guy is important when other girls are involved. Girls are Competitive with other girls, i capitalize cuz i cant overdue that word. In a bar situation, if there are other significantly better looking guys around, then u need to aim at the loudest girl in the group as your "focal point". Make her like you and your target will think that you are worthy to aid her status in the competition she has going with her friends. You'll be the guy she stole cuz she was the better person, which is almost as good as the "really hot guy". As simple, and disgusting as that.

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Gambler is still sort of ugly, just throwing it out there. Women don't know what good looks are. They think that guy from Twilight is hot. Do what you have to make yourself think you're hot. If you know you're hot, then you are.

fixer said-"Dude. Looks DO matter and that's something you can't argue with. But, do not compare yourself to other people. This will only serve in making you feel bad about yourself. No matter how good looking you are, there will always be someone who's better, there will always be an aspect of your image that you don't like.

If looks don't matter that much to you, neither it will to the people you talk to. Looking good does help, but it's not a required aspect of a PUA's game. Being handsome does accelerate some steps of the pickup, but if you aren't handsome, this flaw does not eliminate that step.

And all people have control over their appearance. This jacked guy you were talking about, has probably spent many months, maybe even years developing that hot body. I personally work out, but I do it cause I genuinely want to work out, not to impress people. You can spend time and money fixing your teeth, getting a tan, getting good clothes, getting a great haircut.

You have control over all these things. All it takes is some money and MAINLY skill and experience you must give from yourself


I also want to add, that I know a lot of people who are either very rich, have a good body or are handsome. Unfortunately that does not compensate their inability to talk to a woman. They might hide behind all those qualities, but the chick eventually finds out that this is all they have to offer.

How come Gambler, who was called ugly in high school now has seduced 100 times more HOT women that an average strong/rich/handsome guy ever will?

In our being more intelligent, smart and cunning is very important in order to get somewhere in life... to be of importance...


This is just my two cents on this"



Yes i agree and like your advice. I think then that if people want to improve their game they should begin working out harcore, tan, style, whiten teeth. etc. To many pua's are fat and nasty looking.