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PostPosted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 5:19 pm 
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what does it mean when in between making out, i try to act cocky and funny with a girl, and she threatens to leave and go back to her friends. she repeatedly said ok i'm outta here. each time i said whatever it's your life and acted like i didn't care, and each time she came back.

so i guess i played it right? but also is she just $hit-testing me? what does threatening to leave really mean?


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:13 pm 
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My experience with this sort of thing suggested that I was giving too much push without enough pull. If you know a girl is into you and yet she is distancing herself, she might be trying to balance out the power between the two of you.

I don't think you should treat her putting distance between you as a shit test, but rather as a reaction to something in your game that you should adjust to keep her from leaving again.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 1:47 am 
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ok so if i was pushing her away too much by acting cocky and brash, what do i say/do to pull her back in? could you give examples?


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 7:49 am 
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what does it mean when in between making out, i try to act cocky and funny with a girl, and she threatens to leave and go back to her friends. she repeatedly said ok i'm outta here. each time i said whatever it's your life and acted like i didn't care, and each time she came back.

so i guess i played it right? but also is she just $hit-testing me? what does threatening to leave really mean?
You played it semi right. You should have made her work for your attention when she came back to you tho instead of giving in so easily. As she knows she can leave, come back and you be all over her again. And yes she was shit testing you as well as playing with you.


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