I'm deployed right now in Afghanistan. Our work environment makes it so that we are working in offices. There is this CPT I work with. I am enlisted (E4). She is two years younger than me.

Keep in mind, this girl isn't the only woman I'm talking to SPAM. I'm not desperate for her, I just want to experiement with this and see where it goes. There's already a HB 10 who I'm talking to and have been working with kino, negs, etc. She is quite repsonsive with me here, and we've been a little physical.

Anyways back to the CPT. I'll call her Olivia for now. We hit it off really well and our conversations are always decent. I've been negging on her a little, in which she responds with a smile and a little giggle, but nothing more. She will keep on chatting with me a little and she is always willing to talk. She is going through a divorce at the moment, which everyone knows about. She is a little quiet though and doesn't say much at all. Not a very loud person either. I take it that she hasn't dated a lot of guys.

Every time I am working or she goes to sit down, or I have my back turned, she is looking at me (I know this because I turn around and sure enough I see her doe-eyes) staring at me with a smile, or she is giving me a quick look while I face her and look the other way. If I was in the civillian world I would have already asked for her number and got much more accomplished from that point, however...

The problem I run into, is the fact that if the Army finds out we had something going (saying hopefully we will), that it could be bad for her and me. More so for her, but I don't want to cause problems for her. I remember as a PUA we are supposed to leave women better than we met them, not worse.

Any advice as to how I could step up my game (I don't like to give up on anything), please let me know. Areas I need to work on are DHV, using more humor, and kino. The kino with her almost makes me afraid, as fraternization in the Army is not looked at very nicely (lol). Like I really give a shit in the end. I have my OWN mission to attended to.

Ok boys, I'm waiting for your input. I know there is an answer to every situation. A woman is a fortress, a fortress you must penetrate in order to conquer. How do I penetrate this fortress? Let's see if defending this country for my fellow brothers is worth it... (I know it is, just kidding)

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Haha. Dude Im in the Navy and know how things get on deployment. How the hell is there an Hb10 in Afghanistan? You must have the sea goggles on...not sure what the Army calls it.


It would be exciting to pork an officer I see alot of hot junior officers on my boat. But its not worth the trouble especially for her. If you want whats best for her and you stay out of it. I seen too many people get in trouble for fraternization but its usually the other way round.

Sounds like a case of SEA GOGGLES! lol It may or may not be I've never seen said CPT. On all my deployments there has always been that HB10, then when I get back stateside she suddenly transforms into a HB5. You can seriously screw up a lot of things with this(for you and her). I've been in your boots before. I was a ahorny corporal in some shit whole in the desert/mountains. Get her out of your mind, clean your weapon, stand an extra vigilant watch, keep your k-pot on. Just focus on trying to get back in one piece so you slay all the real HB10s here.

Hoorah man, or "hooah" in your case.

I've always thought gaming in the military world can be pretty difficult. Rank is always an issue, especially if your an officer or an NCO. You're kinda stuck with the HBs in or around your rank and usually she's at(or must be at) a whole other command.

If anyone has some successful advice on The Game while in uniform please tell

No lie no lie, she is def a HB10, at the very least I'd say a HB8.5-9. In other words, she is very attractive. No blemishes, takes very good care of herself (saying that she is hot to begin with, but obviously officers take better care of themselves anyway).

The only other two females here worth looking at (that aren't married or look like they've been hit in the face with a cheese grater) are more like HB7s, one is closer to 8 but she is already "bangin" some dude who is just an AFC. He's only 19 and doesn't know shit from shinola. (well she's younger too, but who's countin). The other HB I mentioned is 19 as well, but I rarely get a chance to see her based on where we work.

MY job is intel, which puts me next to officers all day (that's 12 hours of the day). (at least in this workspace). I don't wear gear but when I do gate guard duty (which involves sitting around for two hours opening and closing a gate).

Anyways, maybe I should shift to these lower rankers, but most are married or are banging (even though it's against the rules when deployed) other dudes here. There is a civillian HB9 who I am currently spending time with, things are getting a little heated at moments with us, there is a ton of kino between us, but we haven't been too risky just yet, (we are setting up a meeting time when I get home), I'd like to seal the deal while I'm here, but there is virtually no place to be alone, unless I bring her into my room (there's 6 other guys in there).

Plus on top of this, it's punishble by some gay code or something. (I know what it is, I'd just rather not even utter the words here).

Anyways, that's the situation.

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I'm gonna assume you're a 35G,F,L, P or N. Hell maybe an O9L. Whatever the case you're not a fucking Grunt! You've got a WAY MORE more to lose some infantryman or cavalry guy. As a fellow brother in arms I would strongly suggest to wait. It sucks yes, but your career just isn't worth throwing away for some pussy in-theatre.

Believe it or not, people are getting it on here. Getting pussy down-range is more common than you think. More than half of the people on the base are doing it, they sell condoms at the PX here for God sakes. It is Afghanistan too, so no jokes about; "ha ha, you are prob in the US."

Trust me, I'm not. Anyways I'm not worried about anything bad happening, that's for fools. You would do the same if you were me.

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I've been in western Afghanistan for 11 months, and my FOB goggles are on tight.
I think that the problem (for me any way) is that there are two kinds of chicks in combat zones, chicks that WILL fuck, and chicks that wont. The ones that will already are and have been. The ones that wont are married and won't cheat, or just not willing to put out.

If you can find one that WILL fuck and isn't getting it somewhere else, you're good to go.
On the FOB (Forward Operating Base) where I am, there are only a hand full of chicks that are getting offered dick left and right, and most of them already have a guy that they are getting it from. So unless your cock is 13 inches long and your stare can give a girl a screaming orgasm...your SOL.

I would say don't mess with officers, I've never seen it end well for either.

Not the advise that you are looking for : DONT POOP where YOU EAT. Especially in the Army the down side is far greater. Whats if you game the girl and you have a great 6 months relationship and then things go south and you are accused. What are you going to do then ? I'd wait to get off base and then get in touch with her. Not when you are out there under stress conditions.

So a NO-GO is my advise, take it or leave it.

[quote] So unless your cock is 13 inches long and your stare can give a girl a screaming orgasm...[/qoute]

Is there a workshop to learn how to do that?

BTW, thank you for your advice, I do agree that it's harder down range to game women, if not near impossible. However, get this, they actually have a "club" here where soldiers can go to dance, it's open every night, playing different music every day of the week.

Hmm, gives new meaning to the term "Sarging".

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I wouldn't risk it. I have a good friend that got busted for this same thing (putting it to an officer) and he got screwed - not just by her, but by the military. We'll ignore that it was his third court martial in a year and the only reason he's still in the service is because of his medical background (coincidentally, he's TRYING to get sent to the Mid East because he's already on base restrictions, at least over there he'd be getting paid more to be restricted to base).

Seriously, man. I never thought I'd tell someone this, but you can't do it. Ignoring what would happen to you if you got busted, if she got busted, it'd be her career. She'd still be in the service, but every time she went to a new post, she'd be the Captain that slept with the grunt in Afghanistan and was dumb enough to get caught. There goes any chance she has at a stellar Army career. Not to mention she might lose rank, which is much worse for an officer then an enlisted. If she's a captain she's probably already got, what, ten years in? More? That's halfway to retirement.

Like you said, leave 'em better then you found 'em. How shitty would you feel to see her get screwed over because you got caught with her?

In response to your reply, she is getting out before I do. She hates the Army.

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Agree with the others that are saying don't do it. Besides whatever legal stuff might arise out of it, I think it would just create more trouble than it's worth. Seems like every place I've been stationed (AF), one of the first bits of "advice" seniors have given has been to stay away from the females in the unit. They say it tends to create a lot of problems which in turn affects the mission, and it seems like they're usually right.

You can definitely do a lot better. Plus tbh, it's going to be very hard to convince people that a deployed military girl is anything other than a desert queen. So I would say do yourself a favor and wait on it, but that's just my opinion

Just wanted to say lol about the sea goggles. It is true.

I have a friend who is in jail and said at that point, he is so horny he would fuck his grandma. Scary part was I don't think he was kidding