I was out this weekend and noticed two HB9's (I think they were twins) sitting at a table with another girlfriend. So I talked to another HB standing about 15ft from their table (making sure they saw me to build value), then I acted like I wanted to buy a drink from a 10 hired gun, who was set up close by but some looser was trying to talk to her...and doing a poor job I might add...so I then acted frustrated and opened up the table

SLCK: I need a drink and that guy is wasting his time and now my time

GIRLS: Haha yeah it looks that way...she looks slutty so I think she's working him for tips.

SLCK: Slutty?? No way (smiles) .... well maybe a little

GIRLS: So what are you doing here?

SLCK: talking to you while that guy lies to himself with that slutty girl selling drinks.

GIRLS: Hahaha no what are you doing here (Name of the bar)

SLCK: Oh hangin with some friends, dancin...same as you guys..well except for you (pointing to one of the HB twins), I have a feeling your the bad one of the group and all your friends have to keep you under control.

HB: (Hits my arm), oh you think so?? Blah blah blah

SLCK: Well I gotta get back to my friends and get a drink


It fizzled out after I showed intent on one of the HB's, I think I lost the set after that....any ideas as to how to hold the set, while letting the HB know you like her?

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seems like you didn't DHV enough. Go into a routine or story. Maybe use one more neg.

From what you told us.. it didn't fizzle out. If she touches you outside of a strait up slap then that is a killer IOI my friend. Anyway, as per your question...

Just hold the set. You pick out a target because that is the one who will have to fight for your attention. Once you have allowed her to "qualify" herself to you THEN you can show you like her. Until then, you are just making yourself look good. DHV, Negs, Bantering, and Kino (ON every girl in the group). Remember, if you only kino 1 girl then everyone realizes what is going on.

Approach/(Open)
Build Attraction/( False Disqualifier,DHV,Neg,Banter,ignore)
Qualify/(False Dislqualifier, She Qualifies to you)

As soon as she qualifies to you... then you can move to isolate. In your situation though, you would probably want to invite them over to your table with your friends OR have your friends come over and help you isolate. A 2 set is difficult because your always leaving one of HER friends alone (Either physically or via conversation and body language).

Once you have her isolated... then you can begin setting up Rapport (Or Comfort stages.).

Hope this helps.

EvoJ

I should of DHV'd a little more and tried to work the entire group more. In hindsight they probably got the hint as to which one I was interested in, which threw them off. I will work on some DHV stories before I go out again. Any ideas for a DHV story in this situation?

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double and triple sets are tough because if the other girls are bored and you dont ahve wingmen at your side to entertain them... it could become a lost cause....


What i would have done here... is like the other said keep increasing value, but then when a song came on that was mainstream..these girls seem like they would be very much into popculture.... I would have said well looks like im not getting my drink anytime soon... and then i would pick the least attractive of the three and ask her to meet me on the dance floor...

Here is what this does... you are concerned with your target obviosuly u picked her bc she is the hottest of the three, which means most likely she has some self confidence, leave her there at the table with the other friend... but make sure you keep her in your line of sight... Let her see you interacting with her friend, entertain her friend, this is key bc now that you ahve showed her attention she will be more apt for you to hang around longer.... she will think she has a chance with you and not know you really want her friend...

Not the hot friend at the table will be trying to raise her value, wondering why u didnt ask her to dance... eventually go back over complement the girl on he dancing... and say hey well i really need to meet my friends and get a drink...

ask them if they will be around... if they say yes...

say cool...let me find my friends and ill be back in a few...


just dont want to long to come back, but dont come back to quick...

when u come back all systems will be go on your intended target

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