...with the same girl?

I’m talking about really turning a girl off, acting very weak and needy, etc., then doing a complete 180 and pursuing her successfully. If you have, or know of anyone who has had a success story like this, let’s hear about it!

I've done this 2 times as far as I remember.

One girl, we had been friends for 2 years and I always liked her and she knew that (because I was AFC and told her that I loved/liked her and all that crap). She blew me off like 3 times, then I decided she wasn't good for my health so I started ignoring her.

When I discovered the game, she came over for dinner (as friends, to catch up) after a month to 2 months freeze-out and I experimented with kino (i was still new to it), triangle gazing and negs.

During cooking I started off with the kino-ing, holding her hand while she was chopping chicken and brushing my body up against her from behind while saying something like "here you're obviously better at doing your hair than at cooking, let me show you how its done".

We had a couple of wines, watched a movie, I kino'd her more, read her palm for her, squeezed her leg when she said something funny or when I teased her. When the romantic part of the movie was there I jokingly put my head in her lap and said like "oh shit this is so romantic" and she said "no thats the wrong way around" and she put her head in my lap, we looked at eachother and I brushed her hair from her face and went in for the kiss. She spent the night and it was an F-close + fuckbuddy close

The other girl, well I already typed so much that no one will read it anyway so fuck it lol!

Chillburg

Nice work Chillburg, very nice! I started this thread because all too often on these forums I see people giving advice like, "You fucked up, now MOVE ON!"

Chillburg, you have provided evidence that when AFC's "fuck up", they can still redeem themselves with the same girl by quickly learning and applying some basic pick up skills.

I think the freeze-out helped a lot too though even though it wasn't a freeze-out with the intention of getting her back/after all

Awesome story, Chillburg.

I'm curious, who contacted who after the freeze out?

and why do you think the freeze out worked so well?

She sort of always tried to keep contact by msn but I would just go about my business and when she went offline I said "sorry, i wasn't there, i'm a bit busy SPAM"

Freeze out worked well because she missed me as a friend I guess, plus she'd been hearing stories of our common friends about me about having girls around me a lot.

Good story, Chillburg. Just gonna add some diversity to this thread... lol

I met a girl in Feb. '08, at a club where I was working for a radio station...before I ever knew about pick-up. (Dude, if I only knew then what I know now... radio jobs are SO key) We went out a few times, hooked up, had sex... all the while me being a total AFC. (Yes, I bought her Valentine's Day gifts when we'd only been dating a week and a half. Please laugh.)

Anyway, we made out a bunch of times and had sex twice in a period of about 3 months. She got needy in terms of conversation, and I (lacking physical contact) wasn't having it... so we broke it off, until I decided to move to Cali.

After I moved, I got into The Game. When I went home for Thanksgiving, this girl and I hooked up. I had her naked on her bed alone in her apt, and she gave me LMR. Naturally, I froze her out. Worked like a charm.

My game wasn't tight, and I lost it over Christmas break, failing her shit tests and not kino escalating... we kissed but that was it.

During the spring, we started talking again. In summer '09 I went home for a wedding. Looking back, I'm pretty sure she had a boyfriend that she was keeping from me, but at the time, she was all mine. I was home for two weeks and kept a busy schedule. Saw her in week one, and she LMR'd, so I froze her out, and when it didn't work I booked. She kept texting me over the next week, though I was busy with other plans. When I did see her again, we f*cked Thursday night and twice Friday morning. (note: 3 times in 12 hours when before it was 2 times in 3 months)

She's engaged now (probably to said boyfriend), and I'm truly happy for her. We had some great times together. And I left her better than I found her.

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