I voted for the 3rd option, though I get laid all the time, but by some different fuck buddies. When I'm out I KC a lot and can get day 2's easily. Bah sounds like I'm bragging, anyway just explaining my vote
Here is my personal growth copied from another post I made on how your 2009 has been, its pretty long
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For me, I started the year 2009 as the biggest AFC with a huge case of one-itis, kissed her, but things didnt work out and I was devastated. Broke off all contact with her and that has done me well. I became friends with a natural in March, who doesnt know about the community. This guy just has to lean against the bar and chicks will flock to him. I got a few girls because of him, usually the friends of his targets. At least it was an ego boost!
Few months fast forward into the summer I accidentally stumbled across the Game and I thought I'd read some of it while chilling in the sun in my garden. I finished the book really quickly (I usually dont read) and stumbled across this forum after searching the webs for more books. I soon started to put the techniques and routines I got from the books/forum to use and I noticed things started to change.
An HB10 friend of a friend was the first target I had. I was out with a friend and I wanted to show him what the book was all about, he watched me play the field like i've never done before and he was impressed. A month later she became my girlfriend. It ended after 2,5 months because I wasnt experienced with relationships, but I feel that i've learned a couple of valuable lessons from it. Even when we were still together I was still scoring numbers from girls and I haven't been lonely for a day after we broke up. Now that I have become so much more confident, I don't even need to use routines anymore, I just go up to women and say something cheesy like "hey i come to this bar 4 nights a week but i've never seen you before" and I introduce myself, I haven't been shot down, not once. I got a shitload of numbers, countless day 2's and more lays in 2 months than I've gotten in my ENTIRE LIFE.
I radiate confidence, and my social-status/proof is off the fucking charts, but most importantly, I've learned to love life, and myself. Pick-up has helped me so much in all aspects of my life and I am very, very grateful. Everyone keeps telling me how much I've changed (for the better) and what a great person I am. My successes and these confirmations of me being a better man make me feel better and better. I've become someone who loves social interactions, with men and women alike. I've opened up so much, this is what makes me feel good.
My 2010 will be what the last 4 months of my 2009 have been. Happy.
CHAT