Hey all, a friend of mine(not very good friend) is coming home from travelling this week after being dumped by her boyfriend. She wants to meet up this weekend coming. Now i've never tried hooking up with her before but im thinking that since i havent seen her in 18 months and we're not that good friends it will be like starting fresh so why not try my best to hook up with her.

Now this chick is seriously hot. She's a former stripper so i would really like to get in there. Any advice you may have or thoughts on what way to approach this are appreciated.

I found the gaming all (Before Game) period is really easy if you haven't seen them for a while, you already have rapport and a lot of comfort, but now you just need to be a bit sexual (a BIT.. don't jump on her), you need social proof and show her preselection, youre still the same guy, only now cooler and sexier, it will happen naturally (YOU will make it happen naturally)

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Thanks for that StreetLight. I need all the help i can get on this one. I'm fairly new to the game so if you could be a little more specific on the social proof and preselection if its just going to be the 2 of us meeting for a few drinks.

Should i have some funny/ prepared stories to DHV or am i looking at this the wrong way.

well with this chick it might be easier, cuz most of the girls who jus broke that i know or heard of usually fuck the next guy jus for the fuck of it to try and get over their ex bfs,

now there might be a problem that she might see u as a friend, but then again since u said that u guys are that good friends you should be good


what i think u should do is brag a lil about what u did while she was out, Do DHV stories to show that while she was gone u weren't jus sitting home all day eating doritos, be a bit dickish, and when u guys hang out together tease her a lil bit

by the way for the DHV story part u can try and say how u went to a movie premier and ended seeing one of the stars at a bar later on and how u guys hung out for a lil bit, or something along these lines,

if you have a little brother or sister, brag about how u got your little sibling out of trouble or beat up a bully for them, women wanna see that u care for others then urself, cuz most guys jus brag about themselves, and trust me the sibling DHV story works 99% of the time, atleast for me haha

o and try to not talk about why her and her bf broke up, that'll jus make her think about him and bring the sad, depressed, or angry feelings back and you don't want that while ur with her


from my point of view you could have a shot of being the rebound guy which is pretty fun if you ask me

you can invent DHV stories as long as they are believable...

something a long the lines of "blah blah.. with this girl I met blah blah" shows preselection in a subtle way...

"I was in this party and this girl just blah blah.."
"the funniest thing happened, so Me an this girl..."

It does;t even has to be too sexual or sexual at all just a subtle way to show that it's OK for girls to be around you.

if she will talk about something sad or whatever , don't be an asshole and blow her off, listen respond what you think, and then remind her that it's fun to be with you...

"..well, I think that when penguins are born pink instead of blue is sad, but lets talk about something funner.. did I told you about blah blah.."

take her to fun places and show her a good time (I always recommend a ZOO, this shit works like magic)

and off course kino escalate (back rubs, palm reading etc), don't make a big deal off it just do it and continue talking, when you walk give her you're arm...

again, overall be a fun cute guy, that girls like to hang around him, and that does get laid from time to time, and that's OK, if she desides toplay around with you, and she will

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she is a stripper, she is used to guys drooling all over her, so don't.. the best way is to put her in a situation where she has to seduce you

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Cheers guys. That stuff helps a lot. I have a better idea on how to approach this now.

She's probably thinking of me as a friend but hopefully i can turn it around.

But she doesn't know how much have you changed

AND

"wow, I never noticed how cute/attractive you are"

good luck

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