Here's is the situation i am in right now.

I have been seeing this girl for a while now, i met here in September and just started flirting with this girl at my college gym and got her number from there. What she neglected to say was that she had a boyfriend. Later on she did admit to it even though we didn't mess around other than verbal and physical flirting, a lot. Eventually that flirting would turn into intimate conversation and cuddling. Eventually she broke up with her boyfriend (who she dated all of college up to that point (side note, shes a senior at 21, im a 20 year old sophomore)).

Well I kept on getting intimate with her while only cuddling and making out a lot at the time, without being her official boyfriend. Everything goes well up until she says a few days ago (both are now back from winter break) when she says she does not want a boyfriend for a while since she does not know what her future holds for her. I don't know if i totally believe her on it, but it breaks my heart that she said this.

Anyway, there's the basic of what happened. I really want a LTR with this girl, i haven't talked, texted or seen her in a full one day since this has occurred. I am thinking of using the Soulmate moment on her in order to make her rethink her decision when she decides to see me next.

I need advice since I am obviously new to this forum. Please go easy on me if im asking this in the wrong place or not, I really do connect with this girl, as some of you can relate

Aye ya yayee brother. You have a pretty bad case of one-itis as they call it in the PUA world. Best solution: GO HIT ON MORE GIRLS.

You felt a connection, she was pretty and she seemingly liked you back. It's natural to feel hurt but crying over her will do nothing but fuck with your head. Leave her, just keep very minimal contact with her for the next month unless she contacts you first, and start hitting on more girls around campus!

I PROMISE things will only get better when you bang other chicks you'll completely forget about her, and by that time she'll see what a cool and busy guy you have and if she REALLY wants you as a LTR, she'll come back to you.

seanykulps unless you've fucked her half a dozen times do NOT even consider a LTR with her