What you're going to read in this post is going to change your life in a positive way if you're in the early 20's or younger. This post is most relevant for guys aged 16-23(+/-).

Are you one of the guys aged 16-23(+/-) who recently got yourself a girlfriend or is in a long-term relationship? Are you one of the guys who more or less base your life around your girlfriend? Are you one of the guys who can't help but get worried when your girlfriend are out partying with her female-chicks? Well, this post is dedicated to you.

Let's look at the facts. Statistically, 95% of all relationships made in the college is not going to last. 95 out of 100 relationships made when you're that young is going to be history 10 years onwards! The last time you was single and went out partying and fucked that random chick, you can be sure as hell that she fucked another boy during the next months. Why? Because most girls doesn't settle down being that young. Neither do boys.

I know a lot of guys with girlfriends (boys and girls in the early 20's or younger). They threat their girl like gold, silver and bronze at the same time. Their girlfriend is a big part of their life and the basis of their life is all about their girlfriend. Even though some of them are 19 years old they think they're going to marry their girlfriend in a few years of time. Behind their back however some of them girlfriends cheat, some of them would love to fuck the hot baseballguy in the neighbourhood and some of them want to break up, but wait until they find another lover. This is facts and deal with it. Yes, some girls are actually faitful towards their partner, but in the long run, there are only a few (being so young). There are golden morales in life and they work like cheese on pizza!

First of all, don't be a freaking pussy. Don't worry when your girlfriend are out partying without you. Don't make up scenarious in your head of her banging her ex-boyfriend or the host or whatever creature. If she wants to cheat, she's going to do it anyway, and you can't stop her! If you find out, fine, you got rid a cheap whore and there are 3.000.000 (big number aye!) women waiting for you. If she cheat on you behind your back, well, crap, you'll find out soon enough, and it's not like you're going to marry your 20 years old girlfriend in two months, is it?

If she breaks up with you it's not the end of the world. Learn from your mistakes and move on. There are other girls and you're young and ïmmature. Take the good experiences with you and forget the bad ones.

She's out and she hasn't texted/called you in 15 hours! Oh my fucking god, the relationship is going downhill, what the fuck is wrong?

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Good point, you describe me a 4 months ago when I met my ex girlfriend.

Good points. Very cliche' advice however...

Its very easy to sit on the sidelines and tell a guy to harden the fuck up, explaining what the benefits will be. But its still very hard to be in a tough spot in a relationship and take that advice in a positive manner.
Although its good in some ways to have an attitude like that, I believe experience is more beneficial to invoke change in ones self.

We all need that one bitch to fuck us over. So we can sook around for some time and then finally grow up.

Once we get fucked over, we seek comfort from family and friends, then learn how to view girls and relationships through our own eyes, not love-heart framed glasses.

I agree with Micheal. It's easier said than done. It's very difficult to be in such situations and not feel bad if you don't have a strong inner game. In fact what I've noticed from experience is that if you pretend certain things don't bother you, when they really do, then the pressure builds up, until the volcano explodes eventually. This can be really bad for a guy's relationship with his girlfriend and for his own sanity.

However, I have to agree with Consistence too. Since I believe that one's actions do define what they get from a relationship and from life in general. And I agree with him that one need not wait to learn from their experience (which they eventually will anyway), but rather build a solid foundation beforehand, as much as possible. It's best to take responsibility for your own happiness and your relationships.

So I feel a middle path would be better. One involving studying inner game and reevaluating the inner game beliefs/theories/etc, based on the feedback we receive from our actions.

I've been looking into inner game lately, and I think working on inner game starts with working on happiness by following our passion, getting out of our comfort zone, living our life to the fullest, etc.

Basically, if we learn how to be happy just by ourselves, then we'll only need a girl to add on to that happiness and to share our happiness/love with her. She won't be a sole/major source of our happiness anymore.

Hence, she'll be a luxury, not a necessity in our lives.

Anyway, I found this article which you guys might find interesting: http://www.attractioninstitute.org/bigg ... e-men-make

Yeah, same thing happened to me, at least she had the guts to tell me when I got back from vacation, crushed my hard, broke up and got me into the game and self-improvement all together. It was one of the most painful and best experiences of my life, because it formed what I am today, and I'm still growing, it will never stop.

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Very true Michael. I had to learn the hard way.

I like this post. Fuck her.

I will keep this information in my head, i am 16 and i will enjoy if i have a girlfriend and don't freak like a chicken without a head if she cheat, breaking up, party with their friends,...

Who will marry with your girlfriend at the age 16
Or stay with her for 10 years and than marry her ^^


Tnak you very much for your information, it motivates me that it isn't end of the world when i have rejection or something like that

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......and this is why I dont date party girls....Dont want someone who lives like I do (though I haven't gotten laid, theres still the chance with alcolol involved)

Though I do agree that guys shouldn't worry non-stop about where their g/fs are.

I thought it was common sense you don't date a girl you meet at a party? Either way, yeah chances of you finding the girl you'll marry at the ages of 16-23 is highly unlikely hence why I don't plan on it, and am living my life and getting my career in focus and getting everything I want in life before giving it all up and to share it with someone else.

i don't see the problem with dating girls met at a party?

yeah, im also stumpped on why not to date a girl from a party

And 83% of all statistics are made up on the spot :p

The actual advice portion of your post isn't bad and I have said a lot of it before, but the psuedo-information you prefaced it with just encourages a bunch of bullshit limiting beliefs. If you decide it's worthwhile to engage in a relationship with somebody, you owe it to yourself and that person to see it through and find out how deep it goes. What you wrote above encourages a defeatist attitude that does more harm than good.

Food for thought: my girlfriend/mother of my child/future wife and I have dated on and off since I was 17 and she was 22. That was five years ago.

Your boy,
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Nah i didnt think this. I thought he was saying in general, not to date party girls

it's a shame most people don't even commit or think about mindfullness.

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i th9ink the avrage marage is 11 years? somthing like that... now i'm 21 and in a 2 year reaphionship and it's going strong. do i see me marrying this girl. HELL NO!! do i see me with her when we're 60 again hell no!! however strienger things have happened. personaly if over the cource of my life if i was to have 2-3 11 year reashonships i will consider my self a have rich man to have loves and been loves that meany times.... peonaly

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