I ran into this girl at a club a couple of nights ago.

So we start talking and everything is going according to plan...
Then as she tells me about what she does for a living...
I interupt her and I tell her that I have no interest in the usual boring
BS people tell eachother.. so I ask her what she wanted to be growing up.

She tells me she wanted to be an actress.
(I decice to go for a K-close right away)
Me: Thats amazing, I always wanted to be a director
Her: Well, okey.
Me: Lets see if you are any good.
(So my plan was to warm her up saying something, then pretty much order her to kiss me as a part of the act)
Me: Tell me something about yourself you normally dont tell people
(This was a HUGE misstake.. )

Her: (Looks at me very seriously) I went out alone tonight. I always do.
I tell people I have friends, but I dont. I cant belive Im telling you this.

She freaked me out. I honestly thought it was for real.
She said: Be careful what you wish for, and laughed.
I couldnt continue talking to her. I was afraid of her.

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

Tou-fucking-CHE! Sounds like she wanted to play... girls like that are always the most fun

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Live Your Truth.

my suggestion: Be a gentleman at all times. When a woman express variability spoken (your case about flying solo) or observed (drinking to much) I would suggest to plans of action.

Disquisition: If the variability is to grave you might get dragged by your feet in to negativity town by this woman. Detach with grace and poise.

Validation: This woman is getting very honest very quickly (one of my biggest weakness when I was operating under the AFC mentality a long time ago) She might need a bit of a boost. As a PUA I strive to radiate confidence, power, charm, and a easy sense of self acceptance that puts the woman I desire at ease.

You may have accomplished this with your target. When you do try not to judge just flow with the current and see where it takes you. Its more fun that way for both you and her.

Play on,

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