So far, I've never tried picking up any strippers before. So I'd love to hear from any gurus here so I can improve my game. Thanks in advance.

*I'll put comments on things that I think I did right/wrong. So you guys can tell me if I'm right or wrong*

I usually break down the senario so I can understand what's going on in my mind or hers. (Closed or fail.. well at least I try to learn so i can improve)

However, I don't know how to go about reading someone who's job is to lie/gets hit on by men at a constant basis and has more experience than any other women. And on top of that, I had a lot of trouble interpreting IOI's from them seeing that they job is also to make you feel liked. -.-

So here's the senario:

Last week I was on vacation with some of my friends in TX and we decided to hit up some strip clubs. Now, I had no intentions of running any sort of game or had the thought of picking anyone up at that momment so I wasn't dressed well enough to Peacock. *Mistake #1: I think I should have dressed a little better*

After going into the strip club for a bit, I asked this one girl to come over. At first, she came over and neeled down next to me and asked for my name and I'm from LA. She mentioned that she'll be in LA during the spring for vacation but I think that's just for rapport building. I tried to open up the conversations with a few NEGs and she was able to come up with some responds that was very clever and I said "hey! finally someone who thinks like I do".

After I said that, she smiled and asked if she could sit on my lap. I said "well you can but it's gonna cost ya!" she giggled then jumped onto my lap. I tried to DHV by taking control by asking her to tell me about herself. She started to tell me about her "school/work/life etc." *which i think could be total bs.* But then she told me what her real name is instead of the name she started out with.

We chatted a little more about some random topics and I tried to "push and pull" with her for a bit.

She then said something that I'm not sure if it's IOI or something that is part of her act. She suddently paused and turned her smile into a somewhat serious face and "asked if I was married/or have a girlfriend cuz she doesn't want to be a homewreaker." That actually took me by surprise and I said "No I don't" instead of testing her by saying something like "why do you wanna know" in a joking manner. After that she leaned over and hugged me and said "well it's a slow night tonight you can hang out with me." Weird thing is that she said "you don't come to places like this often do you?" I replied "i do when i have clients"

When she said that, I thought to myself that maybe she wanted me to get a dance or something so I told her that I have to leave soon and I'm flying back to LA the next day. She then said "no don't go back tomorrow! stay for another day!" and whispered in my ear that "i don't have work on friday". My friends then stood up and asked if they could leave, so I asked her to give me a dance *i know, i know, that was a mistake.* however, i told her that i'd prefer if she didn't take off her clothes and just give me a dance that way. She smiled and gave me a hug and began to give me the dance. During the dance, she asked me does it bother me when girls are dancers because she's going to quit soon. I responded that "well i give you a lot of props for doing what you do cuz it take a lot of courage to do what you do." *don't exactly know if that was a good answer.*

When i took out my wallet to pay her for the dance she did want to take the money from me. However, I gave it to her anyway *i really don't know if that was a good idea cuz that sorta classified myself as a client* We continued to chat afterwards and she asked if it's ok for us to exchange numbers. She took my phone number then called my phone with her's. After I got her number i told her that i'm going to go and said "i'm going to be leaving tomorrow in the afternoon. let's hang out for a bit" she smiled and said "yea txt me." and gave me a kiss and a hard hug.

I thought everything went ok. However, the next day I wasn't able call her to hang out. So I sent her a txt when I was leaving TX "Hey. I'm on my way back to LA now. Let me know when you're gonna be around the area =) I'd like to get to know you better" *I guess I txted her too soon?*

She never txted me back. What did I do wrong? What's the next thing I can do? I'm gussing that I did something wrong so I guess my next step is to text her in a wk and say "slow night?" cuz i know it's slow. Or what would you suggest?

Please comment on everything I did and thought. Thank you!!

-JM

dude i think alot of those were genuine IoI's and not to sound like an asshole but i think you indirectly shot her down? imagine a strippers life... your job is to please men to get them to give you money... she seemed quite sincere in not wanting your money but handing it over anyway would have shot down her attempts (if thats what they were) of building genuine rapport... thats my guess i could be wrong im no MPUA by any means !
i think text her once more... remind her of something about the night that you think shed enjoy ? bringing that night into her mind along with the feelings (that could have been there) but if you get no reply then chances are its flaky... i present myself with a strict one text rule... if no reply then its flaked and i move on... but i cant see one more hurting !
hope this helps ?
Sharky

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thanks sharky

the thing is that in my mind the one txt rule was in place. usually when i txt a girl she txts me back right away or when she has a chance. i was just thinking maybe these girls are that good at the game. cuz honesly, as much as they don't have any pua guide/mentor/etc.. they have a lot more knowledge about the situation than i do.. at least that's what i think.

but you're right, i'll txt her again. thanks dude.