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The following is a simple quantitative cold read method:
Simply count up the number of "I" vs. "you" vs. "he/she" in the communication process. What's the ratio?
Anybody who refers to the first person in a disproportionate manner is usually too focused on his strengths and faults to focus on the quality of others. They habitually say, "I am this, I am that, I do this, I do that, I like this, I don't like that," BECAUSE they feel the need to advertise themselves to others SO THAT THEY CAN BE SELECTED. This is the pauper, the worker in a factory line, the low level laborer. They are far too used to being "un-selected" for anything worthy and have too much experience being selected to shovel shit.
You will seldom hear the top dog in the board room refer to himself. Why? He's too busy telling everybody else what to do and selecting "OTHERS" for tasks. The same goes with the coaches of sports teams or any other leadership figures. And politicians . . . they're too busy repeating "he/she", in the process of stabbing each other in the backs and blaming the other guy . . .
How can this help you? In terms of self improvement, begin using "YOU" more often. Begin focusing on others in a more positive light. This in turn is what will give others the positive energy to GIVE BACK TO YOU. This is the positive energy that you've been missing. This positive energy is what gives YOU THE POWER to be comfortable with yourself. This will be difficult at first. You'll feel yourself want to begin a letter with "I". You'll feel yourself break a conversation to say, I, I, I, I, I. If you don't have the habit of focusing on others, you'll need to FORCE yourself to do it.
In terms of PU, this can be hilarious. How many times have you met the dim wit who tells you, "Oh, I am like this. I am nothing like that. I am sooooooo free. I do things my way. I'm a fun girl."
1. Assume the opposite. (It's the truth. You could basically make a girl like this stand on her head in the middle of the bar and bark like a seal if you wanted to . . . )
2. Support her like the way your mommy supported you when you yelled, "Look ma! No hands!" - "Cool". . . "Nice" . . . "awesome" is enough.
3. Bridge what "others" do to non-sexual, no-fun boring crap.
4. This means that if she is NOT like the others, she is highly sexual and ready to suck cock at any time. Remember, she needs to prove to you that she is capable but the language being used is that "this was ALL HER IDEA in the first place".
5. Tell her to open up and say ahhhhhhh. . . .
Now the paradox:
The FEMALE low level laborer dim wit gets laid ALL THE TIME.
The MALE low level laborer dim wit gets to jack off alone.
Props for dropping this gem, Kasabi. This I vs You thing has given me something interesting to think about and observe.
Props to Hobbit for sharing a link to this thread. I almost decided not to view, as it wasn't relevant to me.
Much Love to YOU all.
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The Real Finesse
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