what should i say when i an AMOG is calling me out for peckcocking?
this one guy came up to me an started to talk about how i am wearing everything the way i am for attention. how do i handle it?

i might say something like "why are noticing what other men are wearing?" or "Guess it worked." idk but thats just me and if there weren't any HBs around i was targeting i would mostly likely question his sexual orientation. if ofcourse he wasn't a friend of mine busting chops.

I would give him a smartass answer.

you: So you don't like it when people give me attention ?
he: I don't like it OR I don't care.
you: So why are you then giving me attention ?

No, I am sorry, you can do even better if you are with a friend. Once I was with a friend in a bar and my friend asked 2 girls whether they were sisters because they had the same eyes. They both said YES and started giggling. A minute later the boyfriend came and told us "Are you brothers ? You have the same eyes.". We made fun of him by playing along with his little stupid game. For him it was a DLV because he showed that he was jealoused and he cared. But at the end I realised that we didn't even need to reply to the guy. We should have looked when he was speaking, stop looking at him and continue our convo and point at some nice looking women. That would made him look like a fool. The best thing is just ignore the guys that are stupid or jealous, of course if you can do it because if they start getting physical you can't ignore them.

I actually would question it infront of the HB, that would DLV him

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This is the perfect opportunity to DLV the AMOG if you're with some chicks. All good ideas above. The only thing is, if you don't want things to escalate into a fist-fight you might want to think of a way to DLV him without being too aggressive. Unless of course you don't mind that

~Deebo

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I'd probably say the same to him, that he's just starting shit to try to get attention and look tough. Then ignore the dude.

Really...

Trying to have a witty comeback, trying to DLV the guy in front of girls... Thats one way to deal with it and it might work if you are lucky.

Then again, you will be drawn into a "fight" on his terms. Why would you ever even wanna consider trading witty remarks with an apparent loser? Not letting him bother you is the way to go. Keep YOUR frame! Keep it on your side of the field. Sheesh, why would you even bother giving him a serious answer. Dont take him seriously.

AMOG: Why are you wearing that earring.
Ezo: That is so interesting, I didnt think that you would notice. It was there when I woke up.

or

Ezo: Its a birthmark actually, it just looks like a goldring.

or

Ezo: Thats because you´ll end up with the small Pizza while I take the train.


Just treat it like a shittest. Your answer does not have to make sense, it just have to show that you noticed the remark and chose to ignore it because it was too lame.

Or just ignore it and talk to someone else.

Ezo

I agree Ezo, but don't you think they are also ways of DLV'ing the guy?

~Deebo

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Why would you wanna do that?

You come in, take over the set and start devaluating one of the members? Thats bad. You want everybody to welcome you, to feel good around you. Win him over instead, hes gonna help you get the girl!

"Only to get attention from you big guy! commhere!" *hug*

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thank you all a lot. that stuff helped today. oh another question, is there any other ways to AMOG, i liked the question his sexuality and just looking at him then going back to what i was doing, but there has to be other ways.

question again is, is there any more ways?

Why would you try to devalue him, it is not cool unless he is determined to fuck up your game.
Befriending him is much better. You want to make people feel good and not create an awkward situation.

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Diploma in Clinical Hypnosis -- GHR & NHS

i think that depends on how AMOG came across with his comment.

remember you gotta give respect to get respect. that goes both ways.

i know neg theory usually applies to hbs, but i believe you apply the same principle to amogs as well. if i learned correctly, you dont reward bad behavior with an ioi, so the best course of action would be to iod (ignore).