Day 6

Guys I am really happy and appreciative of any and all feedback that is given be it positive or negative. Today was a good day I had my first number close. I started the day by going to eat lunch at a Sushi bar. I noticed both waitresses were giving me constant proximity. I chatted up the hotter of the two she was either Indian or Spanish an HB8. Just small talk.

Then with my spirits up I went to a tux shop because I knew they had a sale on used coats. I like clothes a lot and shop often. I see the sales lady and she was an HB8 totally my type tall nice boobs and blonde hair. I said hi to her and she immediately said that she recognized me. She said you were in here a few months ago. I was like I guess I was if you remember me. She laughed. Small talk about tuxedos and general stuff. Turns out that for tuxedos and coats always keep the lowest one unbuttoned.

I ended up asking her about her work then transitioned to other topics. It turned out we had a lot in common. I told DHV stories. I asked her about what her dream job was and what she wanted to be as a kid.

I noticed something it is so true if you talk slow that the girl will be hanging on each word. I saw the Doggy Dinner Bowl look on her face played with her hair a lot. I did not kino escalate BIG MISTAKE. Eventually cockblock came by and our communication died down so I said I was going to bounce. She asked if I was going to get the coats and I said maybe. She said I am here all the time(ioi?).

I left in good spirits went to the mall and opened up 5 other girls but indirectly. I then headed home to have lunch with family.

Went back out after some inspirational words from Hobbit. I went back in and got her number by inviting her to the party I was having. So I got one more guest and her friends. I told her to give me her number and handed my phone to her to put it in. I tried asking her what she was doing after work she mentioned she was watching avatar so I told her to tell me if its worth watching or not. Said my goodbyes and bounced.

Next goal is to approach more women. Tomorrow I have an hour to sarge after my work. I am going to approach 10 girls and try to get atleast 4 more guests for my party. At the end of all this I will post pics whether or not I have filled this club up or not.

Cheers!

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Your posts are really inspiring man. Please keep it up. All I did for the past two days was stay home

"people get all excited to get laid for the first time and then you realize it fucking sucks." Hahaha so true!

I think it is important to ask yourself, "Why you are doing this in the first place?" I'm at a point now where I'm doing it because it helps every aspect of my life. Getting girls is great, but I like how this "game" helps you become a better person in general, and someone who offers value to the world.

PUASpice, I only go direct now. It's easy, and 99.9% of guys don't do it. Be a man who doesn't give a fuck, and shows his intentions. Looking for an IOI or forcing one before going direct is ridiculous. I like how TD says be unreactive. If you are searching for IOIs, you are being reactive. This concept is so important b/c if you are unreactive, you:

1)don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of you
2)never go out of state
3)have no approach anxiety
4) The list is endless, and being unreactive is at the core of everything PUA offers.


Good Job Pinoy! Keep up the good work, and remember to keep going out. You'll learn 100xs more in a day of going out that by reading a book.

Joe

Pinoy:

This is what you do. Your goal is 30 approaches each time you go out. By approaches, I mean EVERY girl you are the tiniest bit attracted to, you approach.

Here are some things to say:

"Hi."
"Hey, I like your style."
"Hey, you look cute."
Anything simple...walk toward the girl as you drop the line, then KEEP WALKING. If she starts talking with you, stop and talk. If she does not stop to talk with you, keep walking and act as if you were just throwing a compliment.

You will overcome AA.


Next, pick one opener everyday or every couple of days. Just stick with that ONE opener for the day. Slowly, you will *consolidate* in your mind a lot of conversation topics.

Let me make something clear:
Pick Up is a numbers game, it is statistics. You have to approach tons of women for a few successes. Here is the good part, however: What makes a GOOD PUA is that his percentage of success is very high. That is the goal - instead of succeeding 10% of the time, a good PUA succeeds 80%.

By the way, the above percentages are to illustrate my point. They are not accurate. Perhaps [insert favorite guru] has a success rate of 50%. Perhaps it is 95%. I do not know.



Good luck, Pinoy. Do this and you will be fine.

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Day CRAPLOAD 7-20

Well I have been doing a lot of online game recently. I have made some observations. My social anxiety has gone up more since I have lessened my day and night game. So I am going to lay of the online game or not to it as much. Although I have succeeded in getting 3 numbers of my online game and one date. The date was interesting because I did not use any pua stuff to get it. I just talked to the girl and set up a time to meet. Seems like from the get go she was down so I met her the next day.

We had conversation it seemed like I should have done more kino leading her through the crowd. I did hug her though when I met her and also when I said good bye. I think that it seemed like we were qualifying the whole time more of similarities and such. But the thing was those were not enough I think I should have told more stories but I was time pressured. I was talking to Whiterose about this and he mentioned that instead of doing that I should be telling stories and then letting her tell stories. I made a mistake also on location it seemed like I was so far from her when we were talking. I also applied the tension technique from 60 seconds e-book but I think I did not execute well enough.

My plan is to do what Sparrow suggested. I really need to not focus too much on my online game. It should just be for fun and not take up too much of my time.

Party update I am asking my friends to help me fill it up. I have 18/100 slots so far I need to work on it. My friend she is very sociable and cute I think she can bring a lot of cool people to the party. I really want to expand my social circle.

My goal tomorrow is to start out and approach I have to get used to it. I am also going to try to find new people to sarge with because my wing after discussing with Chief is not a good wing and not good for transitioning any woman I pick up because he constantly AMOGS me. He is normal when its just me and him but when we are with others he talks shit kinda pisses me off.

Also when I am conversing with people I am going to try and not use the words I and instead focus on the words you. Thanks Hobbit for posting that in the channel.

I think I am improving but I could be doing so much more.

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