because you worry about it too much,RELAX !!! it's OK !!

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Holy shit, what the fuck is wrong with you guys? I've had failed erections before and you know what it was? I didn't have a connection with the girl. It could have been performance anxiety, but did he sound nervous? In fact, he didn't sound like he noticed the girl was there. You guys are just spewing advice about the physical mechanics of the act: too much masturbating, bed wasn't soft enough. Fine, she was hot. So what? If there's no intimacy, what's the point of this whole BS? Are we just here to rack up numbers? Sorry to sound like a girl, but here's my advice: Try screwing a girl you actually like. And congratulations, btw.

im having the same problem i fucked a girl i didnt like sunday and now i cant get a hard on at all.i couldnt even get hard with her it took really long to be even semi hard.and everytime i try to pleasure myself i think of her and i cant get hard help!!

Oh, you guys mean you can't get hard at all now? I didn't understand that part, the wording was... tricky. If you guys can't get hard, doesn't that mean you don't desire sex anymore, and doesn't that mean you've ATTAINED GODHOOD?!

But seriously, I totally empathize and it does sound psycho somatic.

haha so whats the problem

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