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| Farbz | PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 8:27 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Aug 09, 2009 4:36 am Posts: 18 Location: Australia | | Basically closed with a girl last night and she sent me a msg, the next day. saying she doesn't want anyone to know wat we did.and she wants me to respect that.and it would be in everyones best interest.
She's close to a 10. An AFC mates been trying to get her they've hooked but but he's to keen for her, bassically it's a wierd situation but im not sure how to reply to her msg.
I wanna take this further not sure how to go about it now.
I've always struggled with day after msg's and getting another meeting after closing. it's wierd.
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| Marc | PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 8:31 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Wed Mar 04, 2009 12:55 am Posts: 763 | | Ofcourse she wants it to be a secret, she isn't a slut and doesn't want everyone to know that so shut your mouth and let her have the confidence in you that you wouldn't kiss and tell.
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| Farbz | PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 8:44 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Aug 09, 2009 4:36 am Posts: 18 Location: Australia | | I don't kiss and tell im hell secretive.
Im just going to write back...i understand or somthing and try and organise another date......good idea?
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| Fattie | PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 9:52 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sun Nov 01, 2009 2:16 am Posts: 39 Location: Ottawa, Canada | | If I were in that situation, I wouldn't even respond to her comment. If I wanted another date with her I would just ignore that message all together and talk about something else, like setting up another date. That doesn't mean I would "kiss and tell" or whatever, I just wouldn't let her think she has control of the relationship by me saying "I understand".
If she brings it up again, say something along the lines of "I thought you didn't want to talk about it babe. So why are you bringing it up again?"
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| Farbz | PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 8:12 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Aug 09, 2009 4:36 am Posts: 18 Location: Australia | | haha my msg said " i understand " havn't told anyone and wouldn't.......how fucking gay. my txt game is AFC
I'll work on it.
Cheers for ur help.
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| Felon | PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 8:18 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sun Dec 13, 2009 1:01 pm Posts: 59 | | i think here you should respect the girl and giving in to her isn't AFC. You can say something like, I respect your decision. I don't think you should try anything witty, cause it may seem as if you now have something to threaten her with or you may lose her trust in other cases.
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| fabie | PostPosted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 1:56 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Aug 13, 2008 11:52 pm Posts: 123 | | it really depends on how you reply... show that you are trustworthy...
something like... "You don't trust me? What happens between us, is no one else's business" and really it should be. Banging a girl is not something you should brag about.
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