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I posted about this situation in another area of the forums but thought I could get specific advice in here. I recently met a girl at a club and we danced and hung out for awhile. I asked her out the next day and she said she just started dating someone else and that it wouldn't be fair to either of us. She then said if we run into eachother at the club again hopefully we can still have fun.
I've never really considered NLP before but I know i'll probably get one more chance to see her in person so I want to make it count and I know NLP can be powerful.
What's a good NLP routine that will pretty much make her forget about the guy and want to be with me.
Realize that NLP is not some magic bullet and the best way to use these tools are to use them on
every girl you talk to.
Now, for your situation. First of all, make sure you and her both have rapport. All the NLP tools don't work without rapport. Once you have rapport, you can run a pretty simple pattern on her called the Discovery Channel Pattern to put her in a good emotional state. This pattern has embedded commands, sexual innuendo, feeling safety, and a lot of other nice things that you'd want to associate with yourself. Use binder commands, "now, with me" and self points to make sure it is linked to you. You can actually just use ANY pattern that has positive emotions to it and make sure you link it to yourself.
Then, you can create a pattern which is designed to have negative feelings and emotions associated with it. Ask about her boyfriend, and anchor his name to a certain gesture that you do. Then, you can launch your pattern that describes negative feelings.
Here's an example, I just made up on the fly. I'm sure there are better boyfriend destroyers available.
"I think it's so interesting how relationships happen, but, not only that but also what causes them to end. Like, I was reading an article about relationships and the signs that let you know
it's time to move on. Speaking to you as a person, who loves to learn and wonderful things that can really benefit your life, it was saying that...a person can..
STOP...and notice the bad qualities about that person (fire off the gesture anchored to him). Over time,
the more you notice those feelings, the more they build up and intensify until one day, you can't take it anymore.
Like, has there ever been a time in your life, you thought you were happy, but for some mysterious reason, there was SOMETHING missing, you couldn't quite put your finger on it, but deep down inside, DEEP down inside...you knew you wanted more (self point)..."
Then, you change the subject if you think the message from the patterns got inside her brain. Then, just do whatever you usually do. If it didn't work...oh well, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
CHAT
