My roomate told me that this girl from his hometown is into me. Friday night she comes to a party and we hit it off pretty well, she asks to go for a walk alone, obv meaning she's into me. On the walk i kiss close and we have good convo the whole time. Her and her friends stay at our place and she basically volunteers to sleep with me. perfect. except her friend is sleeping in the bed next to us so im not expecting much. Beggining cuddling we are reallly into eachother, i start slowly feeling her up with no objections so i figure why the fuck not and move my hands down her pants slowly so she isn't suprised and can stop me at any time. She's hesitant at first but allows it and seems to get into it then all of a sudden she moves my hands. Okay w/e, but i try again a little later by having my hands dance around that area to see how she reacts, she moves my hands again so i give up and pass out. Next morning her and her friends leave early. Did i fuck anything up or is what happened to be expected and i should continue to game? Thanks for all advice!

Ya you fucked up, but it doesn't mean that you cant recoup. You can always come back. You never fucked up bad enough.

First of all, unless this bitch was a super freak, you weren't going to make it much further with her friend in the bed next to you. You made it pretty far as it is, and thats fine. Your move should have been to grope and cuddle a little bit here and there. I would have danced around her underwear line or even outside of her pants for a bit. That way you still turn her on without progressing too quickly. You do this for a little while and then you whisper in her ear, "i'm gonna go sleep on the couch (or wherever other people aren't), you should come with me."

What to do now: Text her and be like, "wow, it's a good thing X(what ever the other chicks name is) was sleeping in the bed with us... it felt like you were going to take advantage of me ." then carry on to ask her to hang out again and make it happen when you guys are alone. You have to isolate man.

I completely agree. Girls get aroused even by rubbing them over their pants/underwear. Be careful of zippers though, they can hurt!

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what u should have done, is the first time she moves your hand away, move a bit away from her and start texting or something. she will come to you!

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There's always another

Baner's recovery advice is top notch. I would go with that.

Personally, in that situation, I would have expected the girl to let me silently fuck her, and if she pushed my hand away two times I'd be steaming pissed and probably would have sent her packing. I'm just not into girls that play games like that. If you're going to come into my bed by your own choice you must avail yourself to me 100%. If you can't play by the rules, bye bye bitch. By letting her stay in the bed with you, you were rewarding her bad behavior.