Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.

What Mr Mr LongBottom posted was pretty fucking goood. But you're giving up too easily.

For god's sakes you've been on 3 dates with the girl and you haven't kissed her, you've fucked up by sending needy AFC texts. You've rang her numerous times without her answering... and STILL she has reached you to set up ANOTHER FUCKING DATE.

STOP...Take a minute to take this in...


Now REALISE...

Why do you want to go out and game another ten girls? This girl is gagging for it...Look how MANY chances she has given you to step up to the mantle?

Again all she is waiting for is for you to STOP acting like a little girl and sweep her OFF her feet.

Comprende?

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How am I giving up?

By showing her how I feel? I said show, right? Not say. I feel like sweeping her of her feet, kissing her, and fuckin her brains out...

Is it really that bad?...

I reread my posts, some parts where worded poorly. Writing is not my strongest point.

By being a real PUA I didn't mean drop this one and go for other girls, I meant acting like PUA confident, smart, strong alpha male.

OK, I wasn't exactly sure what you're idea of "showing her how I feel" meant.

I thought you was going to give up...or do something on the lines of, go pick-up some other girls.

But if your plan is to step up your game, act like nothing happened and kiss her...
Then YES... THIS is what you should do...

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That was my plan...

You have any tips? It' a dinner date. I don't think I really need to neg her too much. I don't even think I have to do anything other than DHV. I mean I KNOW she likes me, I just have to be myself....

What do you think?

Kiddo, make no mistake... although she likes you, you have some serious fucking ground work to make up.

What you've done in the past would be enough for other girls to put the final nail in your coffin.

The value game is a bunch of bullshit in my opinion here. Talking about how GREAT you are, blah blah blah, won't interest her in the slightest. You're been on three dates... No amount of value you talk about is going to change her mind...She knows your value inside out.

Another thing that is bad is this whole 'Dinner thing.' Where you're sat for hours talking...

This girl needs some serious kino...excitment...anything to pull her away from that drab, boring 'nice guy' she has met many many times... The guy she thinks YOU are now.

If it was me I'd try and sack of this dinner date... and go do something exciting...then keep bouncing and escalating, until you kiss... Following the shit outlined in Vin DiCarlo's escalation ladder (you can google it)

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You are right about Kino, I need to go heavy on that. You are right about dinner part too.

I'm meeting her and then we go together. I think it's worth it to try and switch the plans for more exiting ones when I see her.

I'm concerned if it would it be impolite?

Definitely!
Fuck it. Text her now. Tell her you're thinking about doing something more adventurous...Tell her to wear something casual and be ready by ________.

If she's hungry tell her you can grab a quick bite to eat on the way.

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Yeah, the dinner is not a good idea, so fuck it.

We're going to billiards, I just hope it's not too expensive, she's paying.

Should I try and take care of the bill or let it flow....

Young man...

STOP and take a look at what you are writing...

"I just hope it won't be impolite..."
"I hope it's not too expensive, she's paying..."
"Should I try and take care of the bill or let it flow..."
"If I shove my cock down her throat will she think I'm being impolite..."

Ha ha, OK the last one wasn't your words HOWEVER, it's there for shock value. In actual fact there is NO difference between the last quote and the three others.

At the moment you're so worried about how this little girl reacts it is blocking your natural train of thought.


Look his is how nice guys act. They're so worried about the girl they ask her...

'Oh do you wanna do this, is this convenient for you? Where do you wanna go after this...blah blah blah'

The reason why nice guys do that is because if it fucks up they HAVE the girl to blame. 'Oh well, she wanted to go there...not my fault then.'

Chicks HATE this indecision in guys. They want to be LEAD. Take responsibility for your actions. Stop worrying about if you're being impolite...for fuck's sake.

FUCK that shit... If she pays for the entire thing your reward to her is being the greatest thing since sliced bread and making her wet with horniness...Get it?

Go there, have fun escalate bounce, kino... Have a plan.

God speed.

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Tipaj,

Tweeby has a good point. You worry too much, brother. Rule #1 is all about being cool, confident, and carefree...the 3 C's.

Now, the billiards place you had in mind is a great idea. You will have much opportunity for Heavy Kino....and please I hope this has crossed your mind already....but girls love it when you show them how to do something (e.g. Hold the pool cue and hit the ball) you can even put in some DHV without even trying as well as start insinuating your sexual intentions.

Not only is the spot you've chosen a casual and relaxed spot, but you also have a lot of room for teasing and putting in some routines.

My advice to you:

Make her laugh, keep her entertained (I know pool can get boring after the first game), and fluctuate distance between you and her. Go in close and do some Kino, then playfully back away as a tease and repeat...chicks love it.

Also, it would be a good time to play a few mind-games with here (5 lies trick, possibly) which could escalate the situation, if done correctly, back to your place and there you go....but either way its a winner no matter what.

Finally......NO MATTER WHAT....KISS THE FUCKING GIRL

Go get it, Tipaj...

-Mr. Longbottom

Flake on her and go for someone else. Really just end this now as it is doing more bad than good .

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Wow man, sorry I havent gotten back to you.

I really dont think I have to say anything that hasnt been said. Everything you read is great advice beginning with STOP ACTING NEEDY to taking charge to not giving a fuck (=more PUA-like) to what to do on this date. All solid advice for this girl and all girls and situations in general.

If you got problems after billiards let me know.

Good luck youll do work

There was no pool no dinner nothing. She called it off 30 minutes before the date. I called and asked why, she said she got sick, I played it cool, said w/e I'll go to some party at university and told her to get better.

Then, I realized, it's the second case of "oneitis" in my life. And it's the severe one. I couldn't stop thinking clearly, and next day I called 5 times!!!!!!!!!!!! AFC move...I know, but I just wanted to know how she feels, at the end she picked up, it was late and she sounded sleepy, hung up and turned off the phone. LOL.

I have to deal with it now. From now on: I don't call her, try not to think about her, and Don't give a fuck. Easier said than done, but I'm working on it. I'm not contacting her, if something - she knows my number.

Any advices?

Tipaj,

Congratulations, you've have come a long way young man.

No doubt this girl FUCKING liked you A LOT to let you crash and burn so many times.

Take pride in this fact.

Second, you should laugh this off. She probably flaked on you because of all your previous mistakes. It was a shame you didn't get another one last chance. But it is all practise. I've been there...

There'll be others... She may contact you again, she may not. But the way you are handling it is killing any attraction she has for you.

Now I'd delete her number and concentrate on other girls.

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