Hey Adam,

Thanks for all the free stuff you are providing... I do appreciate this soo much mate. Just thank you

I have this female friend I know for more than 6 yrs.

This new year I finally grow the balls to go all in and got till a kiss-close and made out with her quite hard.
One week bevore I left my country to go back to GB where I study, we had very passionate long lasting sex, she stayed with me the whole last day and called me till I was in my plane.
I played quite good I think (even though I was not calibrated at all... and maybe overdid it a little. She once said she can't hold track with me). I showed her that I am a leader, independent, strong, protective, smart, funny, manly, sexual... and she accepted it all and agrees.

She always says that she feels very good in my arms and when shes close to me. When I play these lill "Imagine we would life together as wife and husbent.. What would we do if...."-Games, she totally is into it and plans our future together.
We still have contact every day...

Here is my problem:

She has a Boyfriend. And hes a dick!
He doesn't treat her half as good as I could, did and would (even she sais that) but jet he is in her heart and she always had trouble to decide things (in this case between him and me).

He was away for work for about 6 month.. Now he will return for a month, then leave again. In that time the die will cast.

I don't know how to act right in this situation.
I don't try to "convince her" of me. She sais she is very torn since she fears to loose everything if we do not match after all...

Shall I completely stop any contact (mails) as long as he is there?
Shall I stop any contact at all?
If I shouldn't (actually I don't want to stop it, its the best part of my day to talk to her in the evening)... How should I behave to attract her even more?

I never did sth. like that. I really like her and wouldn't do it if I would not think that I am the better deal.

I gained several FBs the last months... But I don't feel like visiting them anymore... This time it really could work out good for all parties. You know what I mean?

Can you give me an advice?

Sincerely

MiRu

Hey Adam! Big fan of your work, style and generosity.
I'm new to this community and the idea of learning about attraction. I read your book, "Principles of attraction", and had several "Aha I get it" sort of moments. In the past, I had a habit of falling into the friend zone with girls I fancied. Since reading your book, it became blindingly obvious that this was because I didn't break rapport enough!
Well anyways, on your site, attraction explained, tutorial 6 is a live daygame breakdown that you do. It seems like you didn't break rapport with her, but rather jumped from comfort to qualification. You built comfort, and then seemed to jump to qualification with the question, "What's your favourite thing about England, and your favourite thing about Mexico?".
So my question is: Why didn't you break rapport with her? What indicated to you that you could just jump to qualification?
Thanks again!

Hey Adam. I was wondering what are the best ways to get a girl to qualify herself? I seem to be struggling with this, as a lot of the time when I try to get the girl qualifying herself by asking questions they don't give me proper answers. Like they will say ''that's for me to know and for you to find out'', or just a shit answer like ''I dunno''.

Hi Adam
I have a somewhat unusual question. Could you share some stories about your days starting out, and the failures you went through? Could you share a little about what went on in your early days?

Hey Adam,

So I'm 17 and I've been into pick up for...coming up on three years now (fuck its been long) and I think its time I finally go to a bootcamp...that and I got the cash!

I was wondering if you'd allow a 17 year old to go to a bootcamp in LA with you, possibly on the 13th, or in january? I figured I wouldn't be able to go to a bar or anything, but I would enjoy learning it, taking notes and all that.

In the past 8 months I've been on a break for school, and I'm just starting back up, I don't remember much, and definitely can't game girls anymore so instead of buying alot of e-books I think a bootcamp would be more beneficial to me.

What do you think? I can pay right now

hi afc adam. i have been going out with a girl, long distance for about 8 months. i dont get to see her lots maybe a couple of times a month. i feel she isnt hooked in enough, she loves me but not in love. she doesnt in my opinion make enough contact with me. maybe im being paro im usually a bang it and leave guy, but i have stuck around and not great in the longterm stuff. how do i get her to be more hooked? wat can i do?

A Don Juan should be able to pull anything off and although I've found e-books on how to get back an ex-girlfriend I haven't found nothing on just getting back that special plate.

So far I have a few targets to experiment on and their interest levels range so it's not a clean body for a case study, some of these girls may jump all over any openings I make and the most important of these girls would probably just ignore me (the girl who really triggered me to try to figure this out)

I would really like to get back this special girl that I had a short 2 week thing with before she slowly short me out of her life and went back to her ex-boyfriend.

wow great thread adam, thx for giving up your time and helping us
free of charge, a lot of pus's charge for everything and were lucky to have
u to save us lol you really do want to help us and i appreciate that.

i seem to be having a problem getting female friends. i took u as my inspiration and i want to have a lot of female friends, the thing is all the girls i talk to seem to like me
and when they realize i dont like them they distance them self from me. one day im hugging with this girl 3 days later she wont let touch her (hand on shoulder stuff like that) and shes less intrested in me. (girls are really selfish lol) how do i keep that from happening? maybe its not that they like me maybe its something else either way i need some advice

thx in advance, cheers mate
Daniel

i don't know if this question has been asked

But what do you do if a guy tries to mess with your game?

Hey Adam

First of all, respect man for your time devotion on 'the game.' I've been on your website and your tutorials have changed my way of thinking on pick ups.

I do have a question on your situation openers, could you give me a general idea on what to use for situational openers and where I could go from there?

Respect man, thanks

Dear AFC Adam

Say you got invited to this birthday activity (skiing,skating,snowboarding etc), but its not a close friend and you haven't seen her for awhile. Would like to go, but a bit scared since there're ALOT of new people going, but not much people im too familiar with. So without anybody to back me up, how do you survive and shine in such game setting?

Hey AFC Adam,

I actually have two different subjects, but they mix in the same basic thing.

I work as a cashier in a gas station. GREAT for working on social interactions. But thing is, I have no idea how to game girls there. I've managed to have girls be interested in me, but I don't know where to go from there. I rarely close, only when I'm sure that it'll work. Reason is, I can't screw up too much, because I'm at work. I can't go off trying to pick up girls and fail, because it could affect my job. Going at it too direct, or too hard, could get me in trouble. So what should I do? I know it's the PERFECT place to get girls, because I interact with so many beautiful women every day.

Secondly, it's about one particular customer. She's 34 (I'm 21, and yeah I sometimes love older women). She comes often and I've noticed that she finds me attractive BUT only when I'm not in my work uniform. She has no husband or boyfriend. Thing is, at one point she really looked like she was into me, one of the times that she saw me wearing my normal clothes. But the next day she almost evaded me. I'm pretty sure it's because I'm much younger. I told her in a story that I once dated women of her age, so she knows I'm used to this. She loves talking to me when she comes, so I was thinking that I should try to get her to do stuff with me outside of my work, but options are thin. I think she might have been weirded out by all of what happened, and she's a smart woman, she surely knows that I know that she knows. So yeah. Help would be MUCH appreciated on that one.