Nice thread... good job!

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Life is too short to spare...

i dont kno if this one has been posted yet because i've seen tons of variations, but my version goes something like "hey can you help me settle a bet real quick? my friend and i have a lil wager goin on, he says you look too shy, but i bet him that you have an amazing smile"

if for some reason it doesnt work i usually go with "aww... i guess not; at least you have a good sense of style, I'm Slick, you are?"


also... i need help with this opener/midgame line i have been workin on. originally i created it for midgame, but i need some suggestions on how to turn it into an opener, im a waiter so while i'm talking to a girl i'll say

"whoa, i get paid to flirt with girls, but for you, i'll do somethin special; i'll let you give me your number. AND i might even text you."

any suggestions cuz i want to introduce myself with something that gives me value since my value is low seeing that i serve the guest.

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Why ask for permission when you can ask for forgiveness?

If you're at the bar and a HB lines up behind you, then there's a pretty damn good chance she's interested in you. Here's something that worked a charm for me on saturday night....

PUA: Hey it's busy in here, do you want some bar space?
HB: Yeah that'd be great!
PUA: No worries that'll cost you $10 (she was holding a $10 note in her hand)
HB: Lol, it's my last $10.
PUA: Oh wow, we've only just met and you're offering to buy me a drink with you're last $10! You're such a nice person.
HB: Lol!

Havn't tried this myself yet but a female friend said it worked on her.

"Hi, I have amnesia. Do I come here much?"

i'm a server too...and if the girl is a guest then you should DHV her the entire meal. then your line will drop no prob. being a waiter is not a downfall most times. as long as your frame is strong the entire interaction. if you wait til the end then she already has you and your attempt is border-line innappropriate.

if she is an everyday interaction then just don't tell her you are a waiter...she'll be intrigued by your statement 'i get paid to flirt with girls' and you've already DHV'd her. then when she asks what you do, tell her you are a waiter and she needs to come in.

i usually follow with 'you pay for your boyfriend' and i'll spot you...you'll owe me.' she'll laugh and you can take it from there.

never underestimate the power you control over your tables tho...it's golden especially if you can get the parents or friends on your4 side.

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'An ounce of experience is worth more than a pint of advice'

wow... im feelin the advice haha i think i'll pick up a shift JUST to try my new found routine out haha thanks man

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Why ask for permission when you can ask for forgiveness?

hahhaah! i love it. and i think i have the random humor to come up with shit like this all the time. I have no problem opening and then throwing in a directly related DHV but the convo usually dwindles down after that and ends like "anyways thanks for ur opinion or c you around/ whatever"

What i want to know is how do you go into a DHV after saying something so damn random. yea i think its a funny comment..... i'm also having trouble on post opener->DHV->? After you spit the opener then DHV, does what comes next usually stem from previous DHV or do you just start a new thread?

This is all really good stuff. I am a newb and can't wait to start making my way into the game.

Nice.

Did u watch the pickup artist on VH1
wats more attractive in a person looks or personality

If approaching with wing, be excited and say:


"Me and my buddy here are celebrating out first year anniversary! "
"Cheers!"


It's great cause they get curious. And you're being funny.

very nice let me add one

direct

Hi ive been in town for about an hour and i got to say ur the cutest girl ive seen all day so how doin im so and so

i like using: 'hey girls, me and my friends are trying to work out the ULTIMATE pick up line! any ideas?'
simple. easy to remember.

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a morning of awkwardness is always better than a night of loneliness.

i used this even got a set a girls to buy the first round!!!

Hey ladies im not trying to hit on you yet do you have any gum

HB "what do you mean yet?" smiles all around

you: idk what your talking about blah blah yes/no
most of the time u can segue into a routine or just do natural whatever comes up
thats what i do



what do u guys think

Okay so I went to this girl.

"Hey, I need a female opinion, and just got a minute BUT...

Mate of mine has a girlfriend, recentely got together but she has the same name as his ex with who he was together for 5 years. There's still lot's of emotions going on but he would never want her back, it's just that her name reminds him of her all the time.

She doesn't know about that ex... but should he be an honnest guy and tell her about it? Or just forget about it, live on and don't connect her to his ex?"


I actually am in this situation a bit, I asked some girls (3 on the street today while I had a female wing, eventhough she didn't knew she was winging) and it worked pretty good to get some really nice conversation going.

I got to share my opinion and brought it like I was caring about her feelings a lot, and they loved it.

Enjoy.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...