but you PUA crowd may give as good advices.
i have some confusions. it's likely this is caused by some seriously achieved fellow PUAs applying their tactics which accidentally involved confusing me as a part of the game.

anyway, this had happened twice recently, given that i don't frequent bars, it seem to be enough to be thought of as a pattern.

it's quite simple, but i am not enough of a womanizer to understand what's going on.
i walk into a bar, sit down for a few drinks, watching or not really watching the games.
after a while, some blond girl approaches with a guy by her side, who claims to be her bf (i only half believe this). the guy will then tell me she thinks i am cute or hot or whatever. and try to hook her up with me. she would be confused, or reluctant. she would then show me some boobs maybe, a kiss on the cheek or mouth. but it doesn't go anywhere. after a few drinks together, we part our ways.

i wonder what is going on? i am in my early 30s, and have heard about there are swingers out there. but in my cases, they were college girls and young dudes. don't think they need such spices to have good sex.
anyone experienced in this area to explain me some logic behind these events?
i will be really grateful.

also, i am attractive for asian, but i wouldn't say i hold a lot of power over the white chicks. so blonds hitting me up actively makes me think maybe i appear rich? anyway.

my first post (besides the intro one), hope it's not off the topics. thanks for reading and replying!

and the point for improving my PU skills will be: could I have made it happen? how to win over the chick in such a case to be willing to come back to my place/hotel room?

_________________
Total? where is Total?

what's your first language?

chinese.

_________________
Total? where is Total?

to make the post even longer:
in one case, i went back again on friday of the same week, and the girl showed up with a bunch of friends but not her 'bf'. i got a kiss on the cheek when she saw me at the bar. they sat down at a table and i went to sit chatting with her.
she then introduces me as the guy hitting on her in the presence of her bf. so the story from her is the opposite to what happened (at least believed by the not so sober but definitely not drunk me from the earlier night).

anyway, i should not think too much of these weird things.

_________________
Total? where is Total?

1) The guy could be pimping her ! Lol !
2) We haven't seen you so a picture would help. But May be they find you non threatning and were just fooling around with you. - Its all about the vibes you give people in an interaction.

Make those moments go somewhere man don't keep letting them go to waste.

_________________
Count:5
Approaches (as of Jan. 1 2010): 811
Shizuka Arakawa failed over 20,000 times
Famous Girls I've sarged successfully: Rachel Kerbs, Heather Marter,Aubrey Mozino

could be. i don't know what vibe i gave people, maybe sitting drinking is a bad thing to do.

another thing which came across my mind is the dude is gay. even weirder things could happen, right?
i am not gay, but i am neat most of the time. and currently i have shoulder length hair.

anyway, hot chicks dig losers sometimes. and the 'bf' didn't look above average, it's possible some of these chicks find me irresistible after a few drinks.

guess i will try to put on more of an effort next time these things happen. for the time being, i will learn from the masters' many very enlightening posts. thanks again.

_________________
Total? where is Total?