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| SSN | PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 11:48 am | |
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Location: South Africa | | In "The Mystery Method", Mystery mentions that during the comfort building phase the revelation of a vulnerability or insecurity builds an emotional connection with your target.
The theory being here that it doesn't matter to you.
It sounds good in principle, but I'm just wondering what the rest of the community thinks about it?
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| StreetLight | PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 5:06 pm | |
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Website: http://shmagic.net | | The Idea here is not being all made from routines and clever ideas but show yourself to the target as well..
and another thing, no one really like the too-cool-for-school guys, their reality is too different from the one of the target, you show her you're human, and she can relate to feelings, I'm not saying start crying before her or something but just don't be ashamed of you're vulnerabilities
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| SSN | PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 4:23 pm | |
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Location: South Africa | | Yeah that's exactly how I interpreted it.
I just want to be certain that I get the balance right.
Thanks,
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