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PostPosted: Thu Jan 14, 2010 9:14 am 
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So recently i have been talking with this girl who has been showing interest and i really had the conception that she was interested in me. I did a lot of push pull, make her jump through my hoops and all. And then today she got back with her ex. So i really wonder what happened?

I have been skyping with her, since i've been rather busy and unable to meet up, and when we go out i make sure there is a lot of kino. I think that while we are skyping that she is also on the webcam with her ex, only without sound. If that happens, how should i deal with it?


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 5:24 am 
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Make it clear that if you go on SPAM with her she should be showing commitment to you and not go on with her boyfriend at the same time. dont say it like an ultimatum just say it like those are the rules. and also once you've said it you cant go back down otherwise itll demonstrate her dominance over you.


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 Post subject: Re: Played out
PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 8:34 am 
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So recently i have been talking with this girl who has been showing interest and i really had the conception that she was interested in me. I did a lot of push pull, make her jump through my hoops and all. And then today she got back with her ex. So i really wonder what happened?

I have been skyping with her, since i've been rather busy and unable to meet up, and when we go out i make sure there is a lot of kino. I think that while we are skyping that she is also on the webcam with her ex, only without sound. If that happens, how should i deal with it?
Don't do any 'skyping'. she has a history with her ex so she got back with him. In 2-3 months she would break off with him again.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:54 am 
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Make it clear that if you go on SPAM with her she should be showing commitment to you and not go on with her boyfriend at the same time. dont say it like an ultimatum just say it like those are the rules. and also once you've said it you cant go back down otherwise itll demonstrate her dominance over you.
Yeah, but i didn't want it to seem as if it bothered me that she was talking to another person. I wanted to play it cool so i just ignored it and acted as if it didn't matter


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 Post subject: Re: Played out
PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:56 am 
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Don't do any 'skyping'. she has a history with her ex so she got back with him. In 2-3 months she would break off with him again. [/quote]

What's wrong with skyping? i think it helps with comfort. But that's just my opinion. Anyway, she was with her ex for 1 year and 5 months, then they broke up, she got together with a guy for if i'm not wrong, about a month, then got back together with her ex (as they are right now).


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:57 am 
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Marc's probably got better advice, the same sort of thing happened to me a few months back, and they broke up after like a month


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 8:00 am 
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Marc's probably got better advice, the same sort of thing happened to me a few months back, and they broke up after like a month
Alright. Thanks. So right now i should just hang on to her, and still push pull, and all. Plus just yesterday she said i could be her gay best friend. she seemed really excited cause she was sending me two texts at a go and i was getting spammed.
What's your thoughts on that?

She even said, are you sad?
i asked why?
and she replied because i don't love you.


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