ok i was getting with this girl before the christmas holidays (i'm a student, we get a month off at xmas). In fact i'd only met her once while sober. I'd kiss her and go back to hers after a night out. Had loads of foreplay etc. but she wouldnt let me have sex with her. This happened 5 times before christmas, and once after (ive been back at uni for a week, but didn't really contact her during the holidays). I saw her again the other night but had to kind of brush her off a little bit as my friend was visiting, he didn't know anyone and I didn't want to leave him on his own in a club. Texted her the next day (last Wednesday) however had no reply etc.

So the first question is, should I try to contact her again, or just hope she texts me or I bump into her?

Second question, how do I get her to loosen up and let me have sex with her?!

Thanks guys, sorry these are probably newbie questions but I would appreciate any help

So the first question is, should I try to contact her again, or just hope she texts me or I bump into her?

Wait for her to text you, or when you bump into her. If you don't get a response or see her again within the next week, text her again as if you havn't texted her at all yet.

If you go crazy and keep texting / calling her because she's not responding, you're coming over as a needy guy. And that's one of the worst things that could happen to you!

Second question, how do I get her to loosen up and let me have sex with her?!

I think you're experiencing LMR. Last Minute Resistance.

You should watch this movie, and the 5-6 followups. Mystery explains about LMR and how to get past it. Really usefull and it sounds like the thing you need. (note, the movies aren't synchronized).



Cheers,

NAB

cheers dude