Okay so i have had a thing going with this girl for a few months now and it was going alright we had are rough patches but things seemed to be going fine. So anyway on monday night she is telling me about how depressed she is she thinks she has manic depression but she keeps going on about how she fucked up her life (friends wont talk to her,fired from job,failed and dropped out of school etc..) i have a nice talk with her and i guess i cheered her up because she says she loves me and that i am the only thing that can make her happy anymore... so anyways i don't talk to her again until Wednesday i call her and we start talking but something seems off she is not saying much sounds kinda sad and seems that she is busy so i was getting pissed and let her go i found the whole thing kinda weird but dident think much of it. So i text her today she does not answer and then i go on face book and see she has deleted me like wtf i dident even do anything i dont know how i went from being the only thing that made her happy to being in the dog house. :/

what should i do from here with this chick ignore her, play her games, or try and win her back (how so?) I also would not be surprised if she comes back to me crying in a few weeks. She is HB 8.7 and likes to fuck i do like her but she is a tad mentally unstable.

Ok first problem is youve left it to long you want to do it faster not a few months, secondly you seem abit clingy dont call for the purpose of having a chat, if she wants to do that let her call you. if she seems busy when you call her maybe she is, best thing you can do is call her tell her your sorry and you want a week to think about the current situation or drop her completely

People are the way they are. Sad reality to live in, but 99.9% of the time people don't change. She obviously is one of those girls who will only, in time, grow to drive you insane and in the process you both will be worse off for it. I say chill, forget about it for a bit, she obviously has something very strange going on that I'm betting you aren't all that interested in dealing with. Begging, trying to win her back, etc. will never actually work out with the intended results you're hoping to yield. It would be definitely more advisable to sit back on this one and see what comes about. Things seem to always work in the manner in which they should, specifically when we aren't always trying to control them. As men who "game", it seems that we are constantly trying to control the outcome of every single situation - which in some regards is a good thing. There are times, however, when we shouldn't. I feel like this is one of those moments. Hope it helps!

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Michael

It sounds like you have the dreaded oneits. girls with lots of baggage aren't worth it and like the above guy said will drive you insane. find another girl.

Thanks man seems like you nailed it right on.