I've got a crazy ex-girlfriend stalking all the girls I'm pursuing online through MySpace. I've tried threatening her, blocking her, everything I can think of, and she still finds me and starts shit with people on my friends list. Now, this wouldn't be a problem, but most of the girls I meet, I start with online since I'm shy in person. I've written this girl, and told her politely to lay off, and she's still getting jealous over me and writing girls telling them I'm still in love with her, and to lay off. So I need to know what the next step is to do, and how to do it. And no, getting off MySpace isn't an option. I deleted once and she found me again, and really, I have friends and girls I need to communicate with through there... So is there anything I can do about this situation?

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The Fire of Prometheus beckons the willing.

What about turning the entire situation around, using this psycho bitch for DHV?

This sounds interesting. Please explain...

I'm new to this whole thing, so go ahead.

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The Fire of Prometheus beckons the willing.

I'd personally go with a restraining order and then you can use that as a further DHV.

HB gives you her number.
You: "Alright....we can hang out I guess...just don't go all stalker on me like the last girl I saw. She fell for me so hard I had to get a restraining order because she wouldn't let any other girls near me after we broke up." (slowly upping the cocky funny as you go through the story)

Or if you're trying to get her number you could give yourself a false time constraint and then say something like "I wouldn't mind seeing you again, but you have to promise not to go stalker on me like the last girl I saw. etc"

But restraining orders are in effect online as well as in person as far as I know, so if she keeps telling girls off, she goes to jail and then you don't have to worry anymore, then you've got an even better story!

Hah, I'm newer than you to this, but whatever! I'm so new that I didn't even realize until after I posted the stripper story how much conversation I'm gonna be able to extract from it! "Oh wow, you really dont know what crazy means, girl! you SERIOUSLY need to meet one of my gfs from brazil!"


The fact is: You have so much value that your ex is doing everything in her power to get you back. Right?

So I think the big question here is how to extract the value. Perhaps by dropping it in during convo? "You chicks are all crazy, swear to God! You really don't wanna know how obsessed my ex is LOL!"

Obviously gotta revamp that a tad, just to show what I mean. And I'm sure some of the more experienced fellas would have some advice on the subject.

have you tired creating a new profile under a new name?

And continue to use your old one for your friends and a new one for your women! Im sure they will love the story behind it, and you can use a code name

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Ratio theroy...

That's a good idea, Chikito!

As far as the restraining order goes... I will certainly consider it. She's been chasing me for the last six months since we broke up, and I think it's time to do something more than just talk.

I would guess she's not over me yet, even though she's with another man, but she's a very vindictive bitch also, so it's hard to say what her plan is. She's been telling girls that I'm still in love with her, and that she's over me, but I was her "little sex fiend" for awhile and such. It's all very immature. Insight?

James

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what about calling her out on your page?

Get an actual restraining order haha. But I'd call her out about it. "You're truly obsessed. I've got a card for a GREAT therapist if you need it." An ex of mine did a similar thing to me (stalking my pages and such) until I called her out about it; then she turned emo

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dude if the problem is what shes doing via myspace id be glad to hack her myspace..just give me her mail and consider it done. You ll have her myspace and mail username & password that will allow you to fix the problem

Gun, I'm going to Private Message you right now.

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The Fire of Prometheus beckons the willing.

No offence or anything, I'm here to help.

THE WORLD IS OUTSIDE, THE GIRLS ARE OUTSIDE!

get off the computer, and go sarging.

Work on inner game first, that's most critical in your situation.

Great idea Gun , i think thats the best idea,