Ok so I've known this girl for awhile, just never sat down to have a conversation with her. She was one of those girls that alot of other guys give a bunch of attention to so she is extremely hard to get. I messed around with one of her friends...but that fell off after about a month. Then she started giving me IOIs.

We started texting throughout the day on random days, running solid game in my texts might I add. It turns out that we have a lot in common and not only is she extremely cute, shes also very very interesting. I can see myself in a relationship with this girl. New Years came around and we all went to the beach to pop fireworks, I also found myself alone in the car cuddling with her. Then it fell off for a bit. I asked her out for coffee and never got a reply.

I let it die for a few days before I found out that she was standing me off because she thought I was still talking to her friend. I told her how we cut things off for awhile now and I even had lunch with her friend (the one i was messing with) and resolved everything. Everything seems to be fine but shes not giving me as many IOIs and there are still other guys that have been talking to her longer. One thing I know for sure is that I haven't fucked it up. What should I do.

and shes not giving me as many opportunities to run game on her

Just run alittle phone game and play hard to get. Sounds like shes part of your social circle? so you will see her anyway? just have fun and get other women in your life and she will be more attracted to you and hopefully the IOI's will come in, it sounds like your seeing her friend gave her some social proof and pre-selection so thats where the IOI's started out.

-SoZoS

yeah we hang with the same group of friends. guess i need to venture out of our group then.

heres another question, im the one that always initiates conversation (text, aim, facebook, etc). does that come off as needy or annoying?