theres a girl that i work with (yea i know i know) anyway the 1st two months i worked with her she shows no interest. i give up the previous 4 months i'm not completely desperate.. we always flirt a little bit at work all of a sudden she escalates the flirting when now i am showing no interest in her whatsoever. another dilemma she goes out with another coworker of ours.. she all of a sudden invites me to chill at her place with her friends.. i get there we smoke weed get drunk n shit so obviously if she passes me shot after shot she wants me to stay right?? so idk if i was wrong her but we i end up touching her and we make out.. in the middle of all this i happened to see a txt saying to her bf that its pretty much over.. skip ahead to when we're in bed we still making out and everytime i touch her she saying we shouldnt do this without completely resisting her panties which were black btw were soaked. i end up going down on her and make her cum.. she gives me a 5 second blowjob and we stop.. well lets skip ahead to the aftermath she ends up saying after that she doesnt want to be more than friends.. is there anymore i can do or is it just a situation i should leave alone

usually when girls tell you no there is really no use to going back becuase once her mind is made up it's made up. Since you have escalated your relationship with her to that point... I think giving it one more shot( a high risk high reward situation) is somthing you would not want to pass up. Now in pulling of this high risk high reward move you must be fully confident with no sign of nervousness meet up with her alone, stare her in the eyes while she tells you she wants to be friends, push her against the wall and make out with her. make sure you do not make the mistake of asking her to be more than friends, but let her know that she is gonna be your booty call from now on. the only problem with this is if somthing does go wrong there is a high risk but i say life is fun were men and you live once so who gives a f###.

Thanks alot man my case does sound like oneitus the problem is i am with tons of girls all the time it's just that this is the one girl i cannot get, and everyone always wants what they cant have right. Since seeing her i've been with 5 different girls but it's her especially that i want to get the challenge with her is intense and i am frustrated becuase i feel like i'm on the losing end. remember i've had a crush on this girl since before highschool. Although your answer did bring light to my situation you never did answer my actual question, if i should go for the kill and do somthing about this or learn to live it.