Kasabi!

I see what you mean but surely you dont mean that all inner game is just PUA muscles. Inner game is so much more, it is the thing that goes beyond PUA. Thats not just about picking up girls. I know you know what Im talking about but Im a bit confused about your post, could you explain to me please?

Well, also to accept that its gonna hurt a lot while you do it. Its basically, either you go out there and expose yourself or you dont.

It could be misconceptions and mental limitations.

As with the car, you gonna turn that wheel in every possible direction until you have a feeling for what happens in each possible case.

I'm a black dude, and my game doesn't work on Asians. Therefore it would be INTELLECTUALLY DISHONEST of me to say that the game only works for [other race here] just because I can't f-close an asian chic. I've fucked every race of woman on the planet except for an asian woman. So go figure. Some races of women just don't fuck with certain races of men. I'm black, so I have even a harder time, because most women think negatively of black men, but I don't let that stop me. Women tend to find me intriguing because I'm different from most black men in a good way. My being different, actually HELPS me.

For example, in seattle where I live, most women (of all races) have the stereotype that all black men are saggy-pants-wearing weed-smoking thugs who stand on corners drinking malt liquor and living on welfare. So I'm immediately perceived as different because I don't wear my pants sagging, I don't dress like a thug, I speak proper english, and I carry myself with class, etc, moreover, when I communicate with females they discover through my conversation (without my having to say it specifically) that I have certain social values such as I'm a professional, I'm educated, I'm independent, I'm preselected, I'm a leader of men, and other attraction switches, which is different from the stereotypical black male.

So perhaps you may need to differentiate yourself a bit from other asian men, and sell more of your social value to white women to make them see you in a different light, because apparently white women see you as just another asian dude, which could also be due to the region you live in where maybe white women tend to stereotype asian men. Find out what those stereotypes are in your region and overcome them. And when that doesn't work, just move on.

For example, armed with the knowledge that asian chics don't favor me, saves me a great deal of time, because I DONT APPROACH THEM... lol... and even when I'm introduced to an asian girl, I don't even waste my time trying to target her because I know chances are that it won't go anywhere, and if it would, I would get IOIs from her, which I don't. So I don't worry about it. There are way too many women on the planet (and hotter) for me to put any focus on that one particular race of women. Why fight a battle, if you can't win the war?

So I think you're being a little too over-zealous and that your inner-game is suffering a bit as a result. If white women don't want to fuck with you, it's their loss. Why worry about it. Go fuck 10 hot latinas and 5 brazillians and trust me, you'll be cool.

"Learn to limit yourself; to content yourself with some definite work; dare to be what you are and learn to resign with a good grace all that you are not; and to believe in your own individuality" -- Henri Frederic Amiel

Are we still talking about pick up? Who told you to get hurt? Expose yourself to what? "Hurt a lot while exposing yourself" . . . (Sounds like a naked boxing match)

"I think this, I think that, And then I think this and that . . . " - There is no basis of any kind to "think this OR that" so this habit is essentially a fat lie to your soul.

Everyone has great advice so far, inner game, etc.... I have one question: Where do you live??

I live in the South and its just a fact of life that most of the girls that grew up here WILL NOT date outside of their race... YES, Its Racist but it is not acceptable in their circle of friends (even if they secretly like you)... In fact Black Guys have a better chance at getting a white chick because its "naughty" and they want to give a middle finger to their Dads, but Asians for some reason aren't "dateable material" where I live....

Damn, Im probably gonna get a hell of a lot of Flack for saying all these things but Im just giving a perspective from where Im standing... For the record I dated an Asian chic, but then again its ok for a whitey to date an Asian chick just not ok for a White girl to....

I didn't make these rules nor do I agree with them... Im just the messenger...with that I say: Where are you gaming??

I'm an Asian guy. I used to live in the South. My first kiss was a white chick there. I dated a really tall blonde cutie there. And, guess what? I was still an AFC at the time.

Also, kasabi is an Asian dude, too, and he's got a very interesting Lay Report where he picked up a white chick in the deep south: short-asian-guy-in-an-all-white-deep-so ... highlight=

I don't care what the rules are for social norms in dating. The PUA is the exception to the rule. Get used to that saying.