Basically all I want is a hot friend so she can help me game and increase my DHV. But everytime I get them to hang out they think its a date and refuse because they have a boyfriend, even if I explain I just want a friendship, its almost like they can't believe a guy isn't attracted to them and just wants to be friends. I guess I am attracted to them but I try not to show it.
Ive also tried to stop gaming a girl and make her into a friend but then they either lose attraction and leave or just get heartbroken and start hating me, kinda like I used to do when I got dumped.

So what do I do?... only have ugly female friends?
They are useless for DHV and moderately helpful for game.

I figured a few HB9's would make me have instant PIMP status from everyone around me?

I notcied gay guys have alot of HB friends, maybe I could pretend to be gay? bu then how would I game? LoL

Really need your help guys...

Here's a couple of things off the top of my head about why this could be happening:

1. They are taken. If she's with another guy, he is going to try to protect his investment- it's only natural. So chances are, the BF is going to create negative feelings about it.

2. Your frame might not be strong enough. If I were you, I would definitely play up the disqualifiers with a girl you are looking to pivot.

3. You go about getting the pivot the wrong way. If you start building a pivot by rolling through the typical Mystery Method format and then springing the pivot part in comfort, you're going to confuse the girl. You can't start building a girlfriend and then change the plan halfway through. It might be better getting a pivot if you start from scratch with a girl you have no history with, and clearly build your relationship towards your goal.

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Yes, the idea of getting a hot friend is great but the only problem is, or atleast the one i face, the more time you spend around them the more attracted you become to them and that as a result is conveyed to her and gives her the idea you do want more than friends