So I was talking to this chick right, I ain't trying to put the game on her I just need to know for future reference....

She strait up asked me what I thought of her looks.....
Shes a HB8 I responded maaan you know how you look, that wasn't good enuff for her, she said "no I don't" so I told she was cute =_= killed me inside, was there any other alternative to this?

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

you can never really win with that question--Ive used--youll be all right as long as nothing falls on you

hahahaah nice.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

wrong. you can always win

Negs:
I think you look like my little sister.

I think you look a lot like my Mom's youngest sister.

I think you look like a cross between Pamela Anderson and Ron Jeremy. (Or, you can replace Ron Jeremy with any other fairly ugly male actor. Or you can riff on whatever you've been teasing her with)

Kino & Comfort DHV:
Hold her chin, turn her head to the left, then to the right, then take a bit of her hair in your hands and examine it. Run your finger over her brow as if you're clearing her hair away from her face, and let it run over her ear and tuck her hair behind her ear and say, "You know, I never noticed, but you're actually kinda cute."

Depends on what phase you're in. Either way, it's a huge IOI because she is SPAM the fact that she CARES what you think. This is like your poker opponent just flipping his cards over in front of you before the flop.

The only wrong answers are "well, you're pretty good looking" and "ummmmmmm..."

Be creative and funny. Tease her. Neg her if you're still early on. Demonstrate selectiveness. Honestly, you can think of a million responses if you just let yourself think them.


Brendan, I'm looking forward to your contributions

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wow and I did both of those.....

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

i'm still newish, even though i did my 1st f-close last weekend. I would say this is the perfect time to use Mysterys line, although it's canned i think it would really work here.


HB: what do you think of my looks / Am i pretty (ect)

You: Well yeah you're cute, but beauty is common, name three things about yourself that want me to get to know you more.

She says whatever, you play off that. maybe neg one of her points.

HB: "i'm a really good dancer"

you: I'd have to see that before i can believe it.

or something to that effect this gives you control of the conversation.

Nothing sucks confidence like "ummmmm..." lol Don't worry about it. Assess the situation; it's probably still doable. Don't discount yourself, just move forward. I've learned that even when you make mistakes, you're usually situated much better than you think you are.
Right on. I'm not a fan of Mystery's line, but I do like the principle behind it, which is to let her know that you are selective... she can't win you over with looks alone: it takes more than that. As long as you demonstrate this, you can let her know that she is attractive without fumbling over her or making a big deal out of it.

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This ^

Fuck negs. This is a great opportunity to build sexual tension and to capitalize on it very quickly.

I think the best thing you can do in this situation is to first look at her while saying NOTHING for a while. After a long pause, kino her while you're in sexual state and tell her that you think she's really fucking sexy.

Then keep talking to her while maintaining the kino and close physical proximity.

That'll be sure to get her wet.