I am in a situation that I dunno how to manage..

I have a woman who addresses me nice words, at the beginning she asked me out and I said "no" or I told her that we'll do that at another time.
After some time I agreed to accept to enjoy her company
She is telling me that I am sweet, she seeks to be in contact with me, we talk a lot on the phone, etc. However, when I am getting closer she reminds me that we are only friends.

So, we have this:
- she likes me
- she doesnt want to be with me sexually
- she do not want to have a relationship with me
- still, she is trying to seduce me, her nonverbal is seductive

I feel good with her but it is difficult for me to "read her mind", I dunno what she wants. It is clear that she is playing some kind of game but... why is she so much in contact with me? She invited me to her place at some point. She sends me SMS telling me that I am in her mind and senses, etc. Strange..
Does this look like a simple friendship to you?

She is 4 years older than me. Starting from the beginning of our "relationship" she told me that she likes me, that I am sweet, if I am not calling her she will call. She is telling me that it is not OK to be together because we are working together but still, she loves to compliment me and be in contact with me. Verbally she is telling me that we should be only friends but her nonverbal is telling me something else.

I am invited to her place in a few hours and I dunno what to do next. I am thinking to confront her. I feel that she wants me but there is something that stops her to accept it. What do you suggest?

From what I read about your post it seems like you didn't escalate in anyway.

Push the escalation, kino, sexualise the conversation. The worst move is not to make any. Man up and do it.

You'll know were you stand after that. If she's not having any of it, move on. You'll stop losing your time with her. If you want her still just as a friend (and it has to be only as a friend, don't cheat yourself) you can turn her in that direction afterwards.

Hope this helps.

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Wet your beak in the stream
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The truth is that I feel that she likes me and there is something that withhold her. So, I am planning to confront her on this. I will tell her that I like her and I feel that she also likes me and that there are only two option. I misread her or she is afraid to accept the fact that she likes me. What do you think. Is it OK to do this?

No.

Girls are not logic in their interpretations of their 'fellings' trying to verbalize and rationalise will not get you anywhere. Don't confront her. Make her feel it. Bring forward her emotions. Make her 'realise' through her emotions that she has feeling for her.

How do you do that? See my first post.

If she has a hurdle then, she will come forward with it and you'll then have to negotiate with it.

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Drink me, make me feel real
Wet your beak in the stream
Game we're playing is life
Love is a two way dream

she is testing you. pull the trigger.

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Thank you for your reply people. It seems that she wants some sex, so, that`s what she'll get. We'll see if we want a relationship or not after.

I am facing a strange think.... even though she wants sex, she told me that she is excited when I hold her and in this morning she expressly said that if I would be there she would fuck me.. when I am trying to kiss her she will move away. Still she loves to cuddle me... What do you think about this?

Nobody? Nothing?...


Anyways, I've fclose her and I decided to take her as FB. She is 8-9, sexy. She is still kissing me only while we fuck )