So since joining this fine community, for the first time I number closed twice last night. This was an important step for me, in which my goal for the night was just to get one number, my next goal is to kiss close but that is for another time. Now that I got two numbers guys where do I go from here? I should prob give some background information though first so you can try and help me out...

The night started off with myself pregaming with three other people (2 girls and my bud) Before we headed out I talked to HB7 and said we should catch up again and handed her my phone to input her number...we were vibing a little bit at my place but when we went out I failed to keep running game and keep her interest..I believe this is due to inner game bc though i was trying get social with everyone and get the party rolling people didnt reciprocate well...my thoughts on this is the way i was going about it..my thoughts on this is my inner game wasnt feeling very strong and while i tried to get convos started it showed through my body language word choice and overall interaction with people...which if you guys have any pointers that would be helpful too

At the end of the night there were only a few people left and I was talking to this one girl about movies, politics, hobbies, and the such...we had a pretty good vibe going and said again hey we should catch up sometime and handed her my phone...until this point we didnt talk very much but it was going well and she said yeah sure and gave me her number

so my question is:

where do i take it from here
How should I go about that
what should i do with inner game


Overall this was a good learning experience and my goal for the weekend was accomplished...One step at a time to become a PUA

Inner game is not something that comes and goes. It is not anything that you can turn on and off. Its something that you gotta build.

I would text her and tell her that you are doing whatever and tell her that she should come along.

Hey man!
I can see that you were doing things i suggested you to do inorder to # close her ( just handing over the phone and telling her to put her digits there ) and im glad that you managed to pull it through!
GOOD JOB!

Eventhough im not a fan of routines, here is something that i found myself doing subconscioussly in the clubs when k- closeing:

I would put my other hand on her lower back while stareing at her eyes and than pull her near to me gently with this hand behind her back ( unless she is sitting next to me ). After this i would keep my eye contact while rising my other hand inorder to sweep her hair behind her ear. After this i would hold my eye contact for a while and than move it to her lips and make my move.
Its a bommer. Its sensuel, easy, quite, simple and YOU DONT NEED WORDS so this is something you can do when you are dancing.

So overall:
1) Put your hand on her lower back while looking into her eyes ( this is good if you are standing or dancing ) and pull her near to so you dont need to dive for the kiss. If she is sitting next to you than you can put your arm around her if logistics allow this for you instead of her lower back.
2) Now that she is near to you, hold your eye contact, raise your free hand hand sweep her hair behind her eyer.
3) Move your eye contact from her eyes toward her lips and make your move

EDIT: BTW, remember to escalate kino if you are going for the kiss.

( Shit, this is beginning to sound pretty astronomical )

[ Johnny B ]

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