See me and my friend game a lot and hes a very attractive guy as almost evry women we meet says hes good looking and we do pick up quite often

But I do feel his looks are giving him quite an advantage im not saying im ugly but he has the looks of someone a girl would approach

Like for example we went out the other night and ran into a few friends of mine with this girl we've never met 5 seconds later my friend says that girl thinks my friends cute and wants to talk to him alone

so its like i didnt even get a chance to game her
even though he wasnt interested i felt like i shouldnt evn bother to attract her cuz she liked my friend first

so my questons are

How much do llooks matter?

Do younger more inexperienced girls go for looks than more confident better looking ones?

Just cuz a girl thought my friend was cute first does taht mean i cant game her if hes not interested?

Cuz i believe i can just wanna kno some opinions

I like to think of being good-looking as a quality, just like all the others.

Don't place too much importance on one quality, because that also affects the way you think, for example the level of confidence you have.

It's hard to say how much girls value the looks, because it differs with every girl.

I have a friend that is really good looking yet doesn't get that much action because he doesn't have the same confidence and inner game that I have.

My advice would be to not worry about it and just focus on improving your own game.

Looks do matter, but probably not as much as you think.

This has been discussed 100s of times already and yes looks do matter. Looks can open but they can get only that far, looks can't transition, your brain can.

Cheers
Jez

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Agreed--a girl will come over for looks, but she'll stay for everything else.

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Of course looks matter with women. However, fortunately, for some guys women are very emotional and go with the way they feel a lot of times. If you can make her feel good she'll probably be attracted.

One of my friends is very good looking and gets laid because of it, a lot! Of course he is a total natural because of so much experience with women, but of course that experience was because of his looks.


EDIT: there is always the creep factor with women too. Totally hot + creepy still = creepy!

they do matter but like the others said its just a singe quality
but being well groomed is more importand just looking good. you can make yourself look good by just taking care of you skin and hair (really greasy hair is a big turn of for a lot of woman) and just vind a clothing style that suits you

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