So today was my first day in my attempt to end my AFCdom. I finished reading the game this morning and the day before finished reading mystery's second latest e-book. I have not been more enthusiastic and motivated to better myself in a particular way than any other time in my life. Unfortunately today was not my day. I was hanging out with some friends on my last day in Sacramento tonight and had terrible approach anxiety the entire night. Before I left my house I promised myself I would talk use some of the lines I learned in my recent readings some girls tonight, but I should have made those promises more specific to myself. Instead I talked within my male group like every other AFC and when I finally built up the courage to approach some girls I failed miserably with a bitchy 2 set. I opened with the who lies more routine, unfortunately it went no where fast.
When I first walked up the girls were facing each other at the bar and I came up beside them. I asked them "So who do you guys think lies more girls or guys?" The girl closest to me slowly turned around and with a very bitchy and sarcastic tone of voice said "who lies more? wtf, girls." I could tell she was being a bitch and it stung a bit. My response was "wow you're feisty" and then I said "you must lie a lot." Neither of these responses were adequate, in fact the bar tender even chuckled. After she turned completely around and saw the face she was being a bitch too she cut the bitchy attitude for a bit and retreated to her phone. I was turned off and angry. I looked for the bartender for social proof asking him "how is your night going?" The bastard gave me little when he gave a dismissing "fine." I sat next to the girls for a moment hoping to make them feel awkward and then fell back to the safety of my friends. I know I should have approached much more girls on my first night sarging and callused myself to rejection, but that isn't easy for me. I am too sensitive to rejection and the added arena of my friends didn't make for a good situation. I think my main problem (besides sarging bitches) were the girls were too drunk, I was too sober and the girls were deep in their own conversation when I approached. I feel like this girls bitchyness was drawn from her resentment of my interrupting her conversation with this other girl, my stupid opener, and her drunken stupor vs my relatively sober state.How do you level with drunk girls when sooo many pua's insist being relatively sober while interacting? Do you just barge into a set even when it seems they're already having a good engaging conversation, or do you observe and wait for a lull?

-Trojan

Right well it's good you realised that was a stupid opener. If you would have approached me with this line I would not have been impressed - more embarrassed.

I have been in this position before. When I go into a club, my guard is UP. I've witnessed my fair share of drunked losers, indeed one man kept photographing me on his phone all the time, even though I told him to his face to stop it.



Sometimes it would be best if you had approached these girls with one of your friends - it then makes it a nice group and adds to the conversation. If you are focused on getting the number of one of the girls, it might make the other one feel left out, or akward.

Don't let it get you down - you just need to understand why women act this way and try and work around it.

Hey, like Female*Artist was saying; don't let this downheart you at all.. it was your first day out, you used a line a little out of context and not having any mates to wing you is gonna make it an even bigger mountain to climb..

Remember however.. this mountain is only as big as you make it, it can be as high and as steep as you want it..

Using an opener like that isn't too wise, especially on a couple of targets who are not receptive.. learning to read a persons receptiveness is another skill you'll pick up on after some more practice, you'll be able to spot people who are single, shy, drunk, nasty - and most of all.. those who "want" to be sarged.

The main thing to learn and practice is to make yourself come across confident, and strip yourself of rejections and AA: the best way being quite literally - going put and sarging.. if you get stung by a target - put it down as expirience. You'll learn to trust yourself using lines / natural Game.. as opposed to reciting something you've read.

Confidence is Key.

-Illusionist.

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