Hey guys
So, I met this girl the other night at a friend’s birthday. I did a decent job building Kino quickly and ended up making out with her for the rest of the night. I wouldn’t mind seeing her again but I'm afraid she is suffering from buyer’s remorse. Our mutual friends our out of town for a few days and then I will be out of town for a few days so I figure I need to invite her to coffee or something on our own.
How do I invite her without sounding like I'm playing her? I thought of saying something like "I figure after you took advantage of me the other night you owe me a coffee so we can get to know each other" but that sounds a little to pick-up.
Thanks for your advice
Yves

yo
I dont really have a solution for you as what 'line' to use to see her again, but as long as you built alot of comfort so that she should want to see you again because you connected with her on a trust worthy level. Its important that you didnt take the kissing to a level where it becomes what you would call 'foreplay' as then she might have buyers remorse as she feels she was being too slutty too soon without knowing you enough. I had this problem alot when I first started off, but yea learning to build comfort and connect with her for between 4 - 10 hours is important before sex, where kissing is fine, but not foreplay - yet.

how longs it been since the party? id maybe start off with a suttle text, and NOT get straight to the point of seeing her again, so it doesnt seem like you only want one thing out of her.... but others may do it differently to me..

let me know how it goes bro!

I'd just talk to her like you would any other time. Just text her like you would text anyone else, flirt a bit and be like "last night was fun, we should hang out sometime" and go from there. If she is experiencing buyers remorse flip it up and show her that there's no reason to, you're just two people getting to know each other; there's no reason to make it more complicated than that yet. When you see her again treat the same way you would treat any other women, be funny charming and unique. At the very least she'll take this as you don't see her as a slut so you two can pick up where the night left off.

I've got a very similar 'problem' as this as well, any more good advice for us? I txted the next day just to say I had a good night and blamming her for making out with me basicly the blame frame but she has not replyed and I'm not sure what to do, thinking of calling/txting her in another day, she was fair into me too...

Yves, you gave no details on your communication with this girl after the night of the party, nor did you mention the basis for your feeling she might have buyer's remorse. At any rate, yes, you should ask her out.
ASKING A GIRL OUT ON A DATE DOES NOT MAKE IT SOUND LIKE YOU'RE 'PLAYING HER'! The whole idea is to ask a girl out. Get that straight. Put yourself in the same physical space with her, have a blast, work whatever game you now possess, and then taste her sweet pussy.

Try to plan your meeting with this girl around an activity more fun and interesting than coffee. Picking something or someplace fun shows her you're creative and not like every other guy out there. And it takes pressure away from the idea of labeling the get-together "a date," which in your case, if there's a chance she has buyer's remorse, will help you. (Oh, and don't bring up the make-out session the other night when asking her out; if she feels remorseful about it, you'll only be stirring up those feelings again, regardless of how you spin your line as a reversal.) At the very least, if you're gonna go for coffee, market the idea in a more dynamic way: "Hey, have you been to Lena's Bean downtown?...I hear they have the best chocolate jalapeño brownies anywhere!"

Good luck.