So I met this azn grl while I was at a club 4 new years. She was part of the party of our vip tables. We talk a little throughout the night and I'm basically jus making fun of her and random people. We kiss for a little then I leave to go to some other parties.

She adds me on facebook that night and we start talkin through wall post then messages. I'm using c&f the whole time. I get her number and we start textn and i eventually talk to her on the phone 4 about 2 hours. I build a really good emotional connection and we play the 5 lies game with a bet to meet up at a club this Wed.

Well Wednesday is here and she hits me up and tells me that she's not "in the mood" to go to the club and she's "broke". I agree with her and suggest she come over to my place (but she can only stay to watch the movie but then she's got to leave). She laughs and says she wants me to play monopoly with her and her gf (which is great for my roommate cuz her gf is hot too). I tell her only if we play high-low(drinking card game) and she ask for my address.

She then text me and says she's going to the club that she "wasn't in the mood" to go to just an hour or so earlier. I got the feelin that she was trying to test me (since I already changed up my plans once 4 her) to see if I would be a little bitch and follow her so I told her to "have fun". She text me back asking me why I wasn't going and I told her once again, "Ur good. Have fun."

Was this the right move? If not what was and why was she switching up? Also what is the best play now?


Thanks,

Rupert Ganges

Happened so many times to me, I recently saw a post by someone here on the forum with flake-killers (being stood up in particular), can't remember the authors name though (sorry), but the killer was this:

[flake]: No sweat. I'll just take pictures of the amazing time we had and next time I see you I'll show you what you missed.

But since you subconsciously told her that you had no plans, I really don't know what to do. Tough one.

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Thanks 4 the reply and next time I won't switch up my plans.


-On to the Next One-

Yeah don't swap up your plans unless its a girlfriend type situation. And even then do it sparingly.

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Thanks for the replies