Evening gentlemen,

My name is Harry (Don Juan is my username/PUA name). I live in Warwickshire but spend a lot of the year in Oxford as I am a student there. I am 19 years old and I first heard of the game a couple of years ago as my older brother read Neil Strauss' book "The Game". He, however, didn't really get into sarging. Over the past couple of years I have done ok-ish with girls but I've never really been able to attract the women that I wanted. As a result, I read "The Game" about a month ago and have since become consumed by the world of PUA's. I have read "The Mystery Method" and a book by Ross Jeffries. I have also got a book on NLP. However, I have only really been studying over the past month and haven't really started practicing yet. The pick-up method that appeals most to me is probably 'The Mystery Method'. My hobbies include rowing, music and various types of alcohol. My aim in pick-up is to be able to attract, pick-up and seduce any woman I desire - be it just for sex or for a relationship. Ambitious, I know, but I feel that in any field of endeavour you should aim as high as possible and try your best to get there. I need to find a wingman both in Oxford and in Warwickshire.

Many thanks,

Don Juan

By the way, I realise that my goal of "attracting any woman I desire" is extremely unrealistic. Basically, I just want to get as good as I possibly can.

you mind set creates your reality- get your head screwed back on man, realize that this in not something that can be programed into your head within a few months, gathering your a student your looking at a much longer time to be a PUG- look im not master at this either you just have to make an effort

You cant win a game your not playing?

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Scuba Steve
People often forget what you say,
People sometimes forget what you do,
But people never forget how you make them feel
-Benjamin Franklin

First off, welcome to the community! Second of all i got the solution to your problem. =)

Seeing as you want to become a PUA there are a couple of easy steps you need to complete to get started.

Step 1- Go out to a social gathering. I.e. concert, club, mall, etc
Step 2- Approach.
Step 3- Run your opener.
Step 4- Converse
Step 5- Repeat

Haha. Cheers buddy. It all sounds so simple. [/quote]