GOING TO THE STRIP CLUB TONIGHT WOULD LIKE TO GET SOME PROS INFO ON THE WHOLE THING NEWBIE IN DISTRESS

so i went to the strip club last night and used a couple of opinion openers there was one stripper that got really into the convo, when i used the opener "would you check your boyfriends email if you thought he was cheating on you" she went on and on. i actually didnt know where to go from there cause she was just talking for 10 minutes, while she was on stage. i was being cockyfunny saying stuff like" your cute, but i dont think we would get along. So she came by a second time and told me she was gonna leave after this dance and going home. Im not sure if that was a set up for me to ask her out or leave with her. I cant really tell, i told her" have a goodnight and maybe ill see you around" for some reason i felt like i blew it. Regardless if she want me to ask her out or not i still wanted to take that chance to see.
well i would like to hear some opinions about it let me know

She was into it when she told you she was leaving soon, should of asked for her number. But even if i can't tell if the chick is down i would just go with,"I had a nice time talking with you, if you're comfortable can we exchange numbers?", hardly ever a "no".

yeah anytime a girl comes up to you and notifies you that she's leaving, thats a major IOI

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Except when she is doing this with her purse.

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What is the difference between her saying that with a purse and without a purse? She could of left without saying a thing but she actaully took the effort in trying to find you which to me is a clue that she is possibly interested in you.

Let me tell you something about the very romantic world of stripping....

I'm not sure if you're from the US and I'm not sure how stripper clubs work over there but I'll tell you how they often work over here in the UK. I have nothing against strippers, but it's often an ugly buissness - this might help you see into her mind in a way you hadn't thought of before. I know that not every strip club is going to be the same, and I definetly don't want to stereotype the girls. She might be interested in you, who knows and good luck to you. BUt before you go chasing strippers know this....and this might help you figure out the way she thinks.....

The girls are often self-employed. They rent out the stage per evening usually for a fee. This could be about $150. This means that the owners of the club make money no matter if the place is empty or full. If the place happens to be quiet the stipper makes hardly any money, and end up having to pay that $150 out of their own pocket - eventually they might end up in huge debt. After paying back that $150 per night fee, it;s only then they will even start making a profit.

The owners of the club obviously want to make as much money as they can, so they'll get in as many good strippers in per night as possible. So on monday night when the club might be quiet, the real number of strippers that should be there is about 2-4, but they hire 8, knowing they've got too many girls - but hey....they're making money anyway so what does it matter!!?

This makes competition very hard - it explaines why they are prone to slipping into offering other sexual services that go beyond just stripping and dancing. Do you think strippers come from rich backgrounds? Imagine yourself as a stripper - if there were 9 other girls in the club with you and you had to beat the competition what would you do? If you all look kind of the same, and you all are kind of good strippers...what is the next step?

I'm not saying she'll ask you for cash to sleep with her, but know that some very nasty STD's can pass even if you wear a condom. Be careful.

I was being sarcastic...... I meant when she hits you with a purse ( because you were stuffing pennies into her pants instead of bills ) and infos that she is leaving.
NOW you get it?

And BTW good post by female artist above.

[ Johnny B ]

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When you lose, don't lose the lesson. ~Author Unknown
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hey yea that was great female thanks for that. def keep it in mind.

I still don't get it....