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forget it guys this isnt constructive no more.
Seriously, what do you want to hear ? It doesn't matter whether you send needy messages or not. Your behaviour is extremely needy. You are clearly very needy and even if you try to hide it or not, a girl will always see right through you. She knows you are needy and that is very unattractive for a woman. For women needy, nervous and shy men aren't that attractive because it tells to their subconscious mind "this guy is not preselected". You posted 2 posts and the amount of neediness you display in it is historical. Work on that. Stop being needy.
Another advice I would give you is to understand that if something isn't working out for you, it is all YOUR FAULT. If the other guy is boring but she still prefers to hang out with him, that means you are even more boring. But it doesn't matter. You can become fun. But first you have to realize that right now you might be a bit boring. Read and learn about being a pua. That will make you a fun person.
Another advice I would give you is to get over this girl. Game other girls. I have many friends that made the mistake to stick with 1 girl when they were 16 years old. By the time they got 24 they broke up but never learned the skills of picking up women because they were in a relationship for such a long amount of time. So they had to settle for very low quality girls. Stop thinking about this one. Look for the long term. Now you have to learn how to game. Game girls and have fun with them. Then, once you feel like you want to settle you will have the social skills to settle with a high quality woman.
CHAT
