no big deal--told something in confidence to the next door neighbour--nothing important but still he said it would remain confidential---today talking to our mutual landlord and in the conversation similar words that my neighbour uses in conversation came out of LL in relation to the supposed secret matter--so bottom line neighbour blabbed

I have found that almost all people blab and tell lies there are rare exceptions who dont and this is not just my paranoia.

I have a pua related reason for asking this--the dating game is a ruthless game where there are loads of sharks out there who would love to sink yer chances with a woman for loads of reasons--jealousy,want her themselves,sick fun etc

Ive heard of guys telling a girl that a fella who was into her had been married and deserted wife and kids--total lie--and stupid girl didnt even ask the fella about it just believed it blindly.

I had a case myself--fancied waitress in restraunt couple of streets away from work place--in AFC days--she was always pleasant to me and friendly--asked a work colleague did he know if she was seeing anyone--next time i went in there her manner had changed totally ice cold--he denied saying anything--but hey too much of a coincidence--he was then in there more than ever and got really friendly with her--probably shagged her for all i know

have the rest of you experienced this type of dirty war in dating

recently i asked an acquaintance whether a girl in area had boyfriend--he said no but she has a kid--ive seen no evidence of this ----can any male be trusted when it comes to women---should i believe him--experience says no

I would just ignore whatever he said. Find out for yourself, THEN you can decide whether you want to date her or not. Maybe once you get to know her and she DOES have a kid, you won't even mind because you have a great connection, who knows?

If this guy is a 'good acquaintance' and not a vague one, then he's probably speaking the truth, but then again, he could be after her as well. This is why you only fully trust your real friends.

Just go for it.

Chillburg.